Hey bluebunny,
good idea to cool down and then have a talk =) very smart of you =)
Ok somehow the nude dancing in private makes me more uncomfortable... did he get a private area behind closed doors for the private dance???
Is he someone that is easily sucked into peer pressure or finds it difficult to say No or things like that?
To me "He saw all the married guys get one so he felt left out." explaination is unacceptable to me. it just tells me that you don't have a backbone and you'll give in to peer pressure. and if you give into peer pressure, you'll do alot of things that are "wrong"/inappropriate. I need someone who can say,
ok, everyone might be doing this but if i do it, i'll cross the line so i'm not going to do it.
^This action would mean or be equal to: maturity, good self-esteem, confidence, consideration of girlfriend's feelings, trustworthy, worth dating.
if everyone had sex with the girls, wouldnt he feel like he'd have to join in too because he felt left out?
just my opinion...