Hi!
I’m fairly new too. I’ve been slowly building my rapport and relationship with my current SA at MP for couple months now and she’s been nothing but amazing and helpful.
IMO, relationship with SA does matter, because the SA is the one who has to present you to SM for the holy grail bags. And yes they look through your profile and purchases history. My personal spending right now is close to 3:1 but then again, I only buy stuffs that I love and I enjoy every pieces that I owned.
I’m still waiting for my first B/K offer and my SA got my wishlist and I know that my offer is coming because she’s been hinting it to my DH. Granted I’ve got non-quota bags within the first month that I worked with her.
I can’t speak for the YouTubers that got offered B/K, those might have connections or something. But my personal experience that I have so far has been great.
just a little patience and going down the orange H rabbit hole will do the trick for you