I don't see them as "uneven". I saw them as planned specifically to each wife. Meri and Kody had been joking for 20 years about gonig skiing. Christine had been wanting to take a helicopter ride, etc.
I would be disappointed to see him do cookie cutter dates with all 4 with no thought given to what interests each wife.
I feel for Christine. Meri is right that we can only change ourselves but to make it sound like there should be no expectation that Kody do his part to get things back on track with Christine is frustrating. On the other hand, Christine is from a plural family and she went into this eyes wide open. She's stuck on Kody and Robyn dating (for one thing) and I wonder if that has anything to do with the fact that she was pregnant when they were dating. He was with Robyn part of the time Christine was in the hospital in labour.
Of course living in four separate houses is not helping matters at all.