Ok, I posted a message in the paypal dispute saying that if she did not post a message in the ebay forum saying that she was allowing the return of the bag by midnight tonight that I was going to escalate it to a claim with paypal. I also threw in there that my husband is a lawyer, which is true, just to let her know that I'm not screwing around. So we'll see what happens. If she will post that a return is allowed, I'll send the purse back (its only about 200 miles away in the same state) all sig confirm, insured, etc. If not, I'll escalate it and let paypal deal with her. I will definitely be posting her name here after this is done though, bc she sells lots of purses!