Thank you, blydia, for opening your heart to us and for sharing. I feel like I get on the FOMO bandwagon, too. One trick I do to remind myself of what I have is to make sure that I can see EVERY Hermes purchase in my closet and in my drawers. (To remind myself of what I have.) I fear that if I don't see it, I won't use it. I keep my scarves in their original boxes but label them on the rim of the lid so that I can read the colorway and design. My bangles and Clics, CDCs, KDT etc are out of the boxes and on bracelet racks in a deep drawer so that I can easily see them for use. My shawls are left hanging on velvet lined hangers in the closet. I know I have to cut back because I have too much and I don't want to sell anything. (I don't even know how to do that and for sentimental reasons, I want to keep my purchases.)
In the future, I will try to only buy what is different and truly unique and innovative. My SA also said that H is trying to reinvent classic designs to keep regular customers interested in the brand. For example: double sided scarves, clic H with enamel design on the "H", and new designs for CDC etc. From two seasons ago, I bought a double sided enamel bangle...These types of new items with a "twist" will keep me interested as not to "duplicate" what I already have.
The other thing I have had to do is to remind myself that if I didn't purchase the original scarf design when I had the chance, why would I buy the reissue? From here on out, the design needs to touch a personal chord with me, have special meaning.
I completely understand your struggle with how much is too much, and when does it end? I have been thinking these same thoughts, too and have felt consumed by Hermes consumerism. Price increases on all things keeps me in touch, too. For Hermes bags, I am very thankful for what I have and won't be buying any more of these. They have gotten too expensive, and at my age, I really need to use what I have. Thank goodness I don't troll ebay or other reseller sights. That opens up more doors for temptation and spending. Lately, I have glanced at the VCA thread here on Tpf. These ladies and gents have gorgeous collections. I can't get into that.... talk about another addiction!
I, like others have said, will admire what fellow Tpfers buy and model from afar. I really enjoy the pictures and it helps me with focusing on what I really want as opposed to going to the store "blind" and being so overwhelmed that I can't concentrate on the one thing I want to buy. I am also going to buy only for special occasions....Christmas, Birthday, Anniversary. I feel so guilty at times going in like it's a grocery store. These beautiful pieces of wearable art should be, for me, a celebration of a special occasion. I am going to try not to buy on impulse.