Hey Noriko! I must add that ALL men (who are straight I should say) all have a "little Lolita" complex-it's the midlife crisis fantasy of pursuing (or being pursued by) a cute and sexy young woman (remember Kevin Spacey in American Beauty?). So give it your best shot and feel him out the next time you see him-if he does give you signs that he is interested, coyly ask him to join you for some coffee or something-be natural and be you, no scripts! Let us know what happens-you go girl!