My point is that not EVERYONE is obsessive about bags. What one might think is rude behavior or "purse abuse" may not be to another.
I think placing a bag on a counter is just as bad as placing it on the floor if you think about it. How many people sneeze/cough into their hands? How many times a day do we touch or grab dirty door handles (including our very own car door handles)?
I own several purses that cost more than $ 1000.00, and if I saw someone looking at one and putting it on the floor, it wouldn't be a big deal to ME. Now, if they are stepping on it, kicking it, or whatever else constitues as abuse, then I would have a problem.
I personally keep all of my bags in clean, new condition. When I have sold any of my bags, people always state how they look brand new...so I am obsessive TO A POINT. I have never thought twice about setting a bag on the floor at a place that appeared clean. Obviously there are places I won't, as I am sure most others wouldn't either.
Sometimes I think it's just plain common sense, ya know?