I posted this with the guys' thread, but I think it wasn't the right place to solicit opinions.
For those who are married or have signficant others sharing one H profile, who gets the 2-a-year-max QB offers? Since the female-sized bags (b25, k25, etc.) are much more expensive to buy at resellers, do you automatically prioritize the DW's bag wishes with your H SAs?
What if your DH wants a QB too, say a b35?
My partner and I have separate profiles - always have had - in five stores where we shop regularly across 2 continents. We aren't very scientific about it and often buy things for each other. From what I've seen, we are definitely "allowed" to buy at least two Birkins/Kellys each per year (so 4 total in each country), but, more important, our profiles are considered complementary. If I buy a healthy amount at one store it reflects well on him and vice versa. And, even more important, let's say I did buy two Birkins in a year at one store, and wanted a Kelly - we would just put that third bag on DH's account.
We don't stress about who gets what because honestly 4 iconic bags per year (plus SOs) is more than we would ever want or need, and 8 (across US and France) would be ludicrous ... PLUS "men's" bags like the HAC aren't considered "quota" anyway, and B40s/K40s barely fall into the category.
I have never bought a brand new "flipped" bag at resale and probably never will, but, if we as a couple really wanted to acquire so many new bags in one year that we had to go to resellers, we would, per your question, focus on getting the rarer items in-store. It's not just that smaller bags are more expensive at resale - they are
less expensive at retail because H prices by size, not popularity. HTH?
ETA: I guess the tl;dr here is, why share a profile?

ETA again: Per
@Prada Prince , yes, we almost always work with the same SA.