Quiet v loud v maximalism v minimalism
Like Apple v Android, neither is better than the other you spent the same amount for a different product. $1,200 for iPhone 15 Pro. $1,200 for Samsung (whatever-it-is). iPhone is objectively louder, but no one cares if you have a Samsung lol. Pat on the back, good for you, so quiet.
I don't know really. I think it's one of those internet memes people will use to identify upper middle class v lower middle class. Either for dating purposes or financial manipulators creeping in to mooch.
Sharing my perspective from someone that grew up very poor, then abruptly got lucky with investing. I acknowledge I was lucky, but I quickly noticed people are using "identifiers" to label and gauge how much they can financially use someone. This new trend seems like that.
People who are poor, like I used to be, don't recognize most "loud" brands regardless. Most are outside their prince range therefore not really conceptualized. I would say Chanel, Gucci, Dior, and LV are regarded as loud because they are copied so much and copies of LV's Neverfull can still be purchased in gas stations. If you put a Birkin in front of someone who has never heard of Hermes, they won't know what it is. I didn't know what a Constance was when it was offered to me a while ago. At a golf club, everyone would know. Does that mean Hermes is quiet luxury? Those neon Birkins Cardi B and that makeup guy popularized?
What is the point of this argument anyway... true 'old money' will buy and wear what they want.
After traveling around and mingling with crowds far, FAAAAR .... FAAAAAAAAAR OMG above me financially, I can't stress enough this argument is silly. They're not quiet with their wealth at all. Oh he wears Loro Piana how quiet and humble... okay but his house? He has a hanger for his airplane connected to his house. That's not quiet babes he's screaming. Or another gentleman that got me into Brunello Cucinelli, he drives one of those fancy low to the ground race cars. I don't know the brand but people take pictures of it. This other guy he told me his parents bought the entire strip of retail sites and made it what it is now. I didn't believe him until I saw his parents' mansion, and it was loud. His mother wears all sorts of vibrant colors and patterns, I recognized only Suzanne Kalan, Zimmermann, and Oscar de la Renta because that's my limitation. I'm sure the rest of her colorful wardrobe wasn't quiet, but it was quiet to me because I didn't know what I was looking at lol.
Many will proudly display 100 acre homes, stepping out in fur coats, flush with diamonds and pure gold, and a servant to carry their custom albino elephant purse. Is that the quiet luxury? I didn't mention a single logo. Seems a little loud.
The quiet ones drive '08 Toyotas and complain about H&M not taking a digital coupon with $15mil in properties. Or another solid upper middle class with a house and upper 6 figure income, who faithfully shops at Goodwill. Nothing wrong with second hand, I do it myself, and it is as quiet as you can be. Then I wonder if there's a difference between "authentic quiet luxury" and being cheap.
You put a regular grey Loro Piana cashmere sweater next to a regular grey cashmere from Loft/Vince/Saks generic or I dare suggest The Row and you can't tell the difference. No, you can't. All cashmere after a certain price is moreless the same. Why is an individual looking so hard to determine the brand of a logoless sweater? Seems shallow and nosy.
I guess, my point is wealth isn't quiet because one's clothing doesn't have a logo. Their wealth is very, very loud and proudly on display elsewhere.
Happy St Patricks Day. This internet group is such fun