I find them light however I know what you mean.
If it is any help, I do reinforce the earrings with disks - this makes them infinitely easier to wear. I mean these:
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Le Disc also makes just the disk that you can slip on before putting on the Hermes post back. If that isn't enough support, there are also these earring stickers (Pierce Mates) that I get at Earring Doctor:
https://earringdoctor.com/product/pierce-mate/
I find the stickers particularly helpful for heavy earrings. It makes them so much easier to wear and they don't pull. Originally the product was made for ladies with tears in their lobes, but I use them to reinforce heavy or dangling earrings and it really works wonders for me.
(No affiliation with Earring Doctor...just (an aging) someone with an issue with my pierced ears so found lots of workarounds so that I could still enjoy large and/or dangling earrings!). Hope this helps.