ITA! Although it depends on style and some can sort of fall in between, I like a structured bag to look structured, etc.
That said, as for stiff leather on a bag that looks like it SHOULD be smooshy and puddle, I'm still trying to deal with my scarlet Nikki! The only reason I've kept it is because I love the color and the effect of the texture.
Otherwise, I have sworn off more Nikkis till I saw the mint!! I just ordered that bag. The problem I have with the Nikkis is that it dumps my cell and Touch out of the side pockets when I put it down. I hate that too.
I've been contemplating the Devote, but I've seen some photos that make me realize I'm worried about the way it will slouch. Not sure I like the little belts. Also, with some deep bags like this with reinforced bottoms, I find that is sometimes annoying to the arm when I carry them.
As for the speedy shaper, maybe I'm the only person with this issue, but I find they can sometimes shift.
Finding the perfect bag is always a challenge for me, but I will usually put up with a lot if I love the bag. It's nice to be able to rotate some of the annoying ones frequently. I would probably not keep some of my bags otherwise.