Hi everyone.i know i have written about my crazy MIL before.. things have gotten so bad I truly need advise.
I believe in being positive and I do not like to fight with people. So for every time she has said mean, sickening things to me, i have just ignored her, changed the subject ect.
but it is getting so much worse. I feel she is on a mission to get me to crack...to get me to attack her back so she can say " see i was rite, she is a mean person"
and i feel in this way she will feel like she has won
she is a sick sick person. says horrible things and has an extremely neg outlook on life and people, with this she has a superior attitude..she has even told me she is superior to others (that was yesterday)
now she has just told me she will not attend my shower that i'm throwing for my sister..along with this was a whole disgusting put down to me...i didnt really say anything..i said..well if u dont want to come thats fine...
and she kept at it, bc I know, she wanted to make me cry. and i wanted to..i am crying now honestly bc i am so hurt..i want to say i dont know what i ever did to deserve this...i never had a mom and i dreamed to one day and to have this...so much evil..
but i didnt cry and i just kept saying thats fine and i kept my cool and then i changed the subject but
i dont know what to do
i am going about this in the rite way? should i say something? should i get mad and let her have it? Idk..
i do know this I am going to throw the most fabulous shower and when she wants to come bc i know she will when she hears where I'm going to have it....i will say she cant bc everything is already booked and paid for...something like that...living well really is the best revenge, i guess..what do you guys think? any help would be greatly appreciated thx for letting me vent too
she is such a fake, she is only nice to me or people when they have something she wants or who she thinks is rich, like when i have my shower at this special venue she will want to come bc she will want to "rub elbows" at such a fancy place or to tell her friends where she was she is just blantantly gross..
i dont want to even be polite to her anymore..idk how i should treat her..idk what to do..
I still cannot get past her telling me several times not to have children
on top of it all she is just so unattractive and goes on & on about how gorgeous she is and what great style she has and believe me she does not
I believe in being positive and I do not like to fight with people. So for every time she has said mean, sickening things to me, i have just ignored her, changed the subject ect.
but it is getting so much worse. I feel she is on a mission to get me to crack...to get me to attack her back so she can say " see i was rite, she is a mean person"
and i feel in this way she will feel like she has won
she is a sick sick person. says horrible things and has an extremely neg outlook on life and people, with this she has a superior attitude..she has even told me she is superior to others (that was yesterday)
now she has just told me she will not attend my shower that i'm throwing for my sister..along with this was a whole disgusting put down to me...i didnt really say anything..i said..well if u dont want to come thats fine...
and she kept at it, bc I know, she wanted to make me cry. and i wanted to..i am crying now honestly bc i am so hurt..i want to say i dont know what i ever did to deserve this...i never had a mom and i dreamed to one day and to have this...so much evil..
but i didnt cry and i just kept saying thats fine and i kept my cool and then i changed the subject but
i dont know what to do
i am going about this in the rite way? should i say something? should i get mad and let her have it? Idk..
i do know this I am going to throw the most fabulous shower and when she wants to come bc i know she will when she hears where I'm going to have it....i will say she cant bc everything is already booked and paid for...something like that...living well really is the best revenge, i guess..what do you guys think? any help would be greatly appreciated thx for letting me vent too
she is such a fake, she is only nice to me or people when they have something she wants or who she thinks is rich, like when i have my shower at this special venue she will want to come bc she will want to "rub elbows" at such a fancy place or to tell her friends where she was she is just blantantly gross..
i dont want to even be polite to her anymore..idk how i should treat her..idk what to do..
I still cannot get past her telling me several times not to have children
on top of it all she is just so unattractive and goes on & on about how gorgeous she is and what great style she has and believe me she does not