So, a bit of an update. I did go ahead and ask Marco for some time to think about what to do, and he said I can take all the time I need. He also said he reached out to two other tanneries to see if he could order just 1 skin of the Persian green laminato, so we'll see what comes of that. I think I've decided that if that doesn't work out, and he doesn't feel a 10-skin order of the Persian green will be good for his business (like, by offering a promo or something), I will not ask him to do that. I'll either take the midi or a refund. He did confirm that the Midi would not fit all of my everyday essentials, so I really do need to think this through. In my mind, I have myself almost convinced that I can just use this as a a small-medium occasional-use bag, even though that wasn't my intention, BUT I'm also very very prone to convincing myself into things that aren't what I truly want or need so taking time is good.
You are clearly being so considerate of his business, but I don't think you should feel pressured to buy a bag that you don't think you will use. It was their mistake and Marco is acknowledging that. I do wonder if there might be interest from people in the Persian green after seeing some lovely reveals of it. maybe he could even offer a promo? No easy answers, clearly.
Thank you - I really am trying to keep his interests in mind as well. I am trying to see if I can recalibrate my thinking and happily go with the Midi rather than feeling like I'm getting it just because it's my only option. Or, maybe, Marco's inquiries will pan out and he'll be able to purchase just one skin after all. We'll see!
You show real character being so concerned about Marco! This is not an easy decision. Hugs
Thanks so much! I really don't want to put him in a bad spot over my one bag. His CS is amazing, but I don't want to take advantage.
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@dramaprincess713, of course you should not settle for taking a bag that is not what you want or ordered. As far as I can see, there is a 3rd option,- A full refund.
Your Sabrina dream really has become a bit of a nightmare, I feel so sorry for you.
Might be an idea to tell Marco to give you a couple of weeks to make your decision. Then give
yourself a 1-2 week break from the dilemma

Your subconcious will continue the process. Then, in a couple of weeks time, you will probably just KNOW what solution is the right one for you

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You're right - a refund is also an option. I honestly hadn't really put that on the table because I SO very much wanted this bag in this color combo. And I still do. So much so that I almost have myself convinced that the Midi will be fine after all. But I don't know if I truly believe that or if I'm just making myself believe that because of the situation. I LOVE what you said about taking 1-2 weeks to take a break from the dilemma. I was thinking maybe just a few days when I asked Marco for some time, but I think what you said makes much more sense!
As someone else said, get the bag you want. If Marco is offering to get more leather so he can make the bag you want, and you want the bag, just do it. It is part of doing business. The Persian Green Metallic is a show-stopper leather. If Marco adds it as a special leather and markets it, he will sell it. I have a bag in this leather, and if he ends up buying more, I will probably buy another bag in that leather. It is such a special leather. Get the bag you want!
The Persian green metallic really is a show-stopper! Hopefully, one of the tanneries will allow Marco to order just one skin. If not, I really don't want him to order 10 skins on my behalf, especially if he doesn't think he can sell it. He didn't say this to me, but I suspect he has doubts that he will be able to sell 10 skins worth of bags in this leather. I definitely have some thinking to do!~
Aww you’ve obviously spent a lot of time thinking about this! However, 20 large bags/30 little bags/who knows how many slgs on an out there colour...honestly I would just ask for a refund. Saves everyone the stress: you on the bag you don’t want/ Marco on selling skins that might not attract everyone. Let us know what you do decide to do!
Right now, I'm really really hoping Marco's request to order just 1 skin is granted. If not, I'm thinking it's between a refund or the Midi. I want this bag in this combo so very badly so I'm really trying to critically think this through...it's not the bag I wanted, but can it, maybe, be a bag I can find use for after all? I'm not sure yet, but I'll be sure to keep everyone updated!
I think you should get what you ordered or get a refund. If Marco orders more of the Persian Green and has a promo, I would definitely order a bag in it and it looks like from the comments that others may order, too.
If Marco orders 10 skins, I really only want him to do so if he feels it could benefit his business. It does seem like there is interest here in the Persian green so maybe some sort of promo would be an option. But if, based on his experience, he feels he won't have enough orders to sell all of the Persian green, I don't want him to have to order all those skins because of me. So we'll see. I think taking some time with this will be good for me!
I really feel for you. It is very disappointing. Would cancelling your order be something you'd consider? You may have to let go of this Sabrina that you're dreaming of, but there will surely be something else that comes along in future which will capture your imagination again. At least you won't be compromising on a bag that you didn't order, neither would you feel guilty about seeing Persian Green metallic stuck in Marco's leather list for a long time. I don't think Marco will have any problem selling the Midi Sabrina that is already made.
I second taking 1-2 weeks to consider it. You may have a clearer view by then.
Cancelling wasn't something I had been considering, but I really should be. I've just been wanting this combo so very badly so I don't *want* to cancel. But yes, not cancelling and not having Marco order 10 skins, would mean compromising on the bag on my part so I don't know - a refund is really an option I should be considering. My real hope is that he is allowed to order just one skin and it all works out in the end.
I would pass on the midi Sabrina because it wont fit your everyday essentials. It sounds like a beautiful bag and will probably sell if he offered it in a sample sale? IMO, the question for you is whether you want to risk color variation on the new skins? If yes, the question of whether ordering 10 skins is financially sensible is a business decision for Marco. I would tell him I wouldn't want to put him in a financially irresponsible position just to honor a sale and would accept that there was no Persian green in stock for a refund if he decided not to risk ordering more stock.
The color variation is a real concern as well. I'm ok and understand a bit of variation, but the stamped version he sent me a photo of looks so very grass green to me, and I know I wouldn't be happy with that. When he told me he had inquired about ordering just 1 skin, I asked him about the potential color variation, if the 1 skin order is granted. I let him know that I do not prefer the grass green shade of the stamped version and definitely would want the shade of the original, so we'll see what he says. Even if they do allow him to order just one skin, if it's going to be that grass green shade, I would rather not go through it that since I know it's not the green I'm after.
I agree with asking more time to think through,ask yourself which matters most, the leather ( stunning stunning ❤❤) or the size? For me , it's the size. I have a Victoria Midi in Aqua Pebbled, I love the leather and color but because the size was too small for me, I never use it despite being the leather and color that I want. I'm contemplating selling it or giving it to my sister or niece. And hopefully Marco has the same exact leather to make the normal Victoria which I much prefer when I'm ready to order .
At the moment I'm using a Longchamp Tote Bag since I can wipe with disinfectant wipes constantly.
Good luck with your decision, one thing to remember is that Marco will always have beautiful new leathers , so maybe there's more that you would love as much or even more in the future.
Thanks so much as framing it in this way and for sharing your experience - it helps give me perspective! I think I really need to think critically about whether or not I can reframe how I had planned to use this bag and whether or not I'm ok with that. Could I maybe find a use for it in its smaller size? I've almost convinced myself yes because I want these leathers in this combo and style SO badly. But I also want to be truly honest with myself and really make sure I'm spending my funds wisely. A week or two to let things marinate will help, I think!