Maintaining an H relationship

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Hi! Question: while I wait for a QB offer (little over a year now), I was hoping to buy a Picotin if in stock from my SA. Will buying this bag as my “first” H bag delay my original wishlist offer?
Based on my limited personal experience, I don’t think so. I was able to buy two non quota bags and 1 quota bag in the same year in my highly competitive store. Even in New York, my SA specifically said buying a non quota bag which he had offered to me would help my purchase history towards getting a QB.
 
I would just ask your SA about it. Yes, it’s not a high demand bag but it’s still a bag that whatever store has one (if any do) spent a good amount from their podium bag budget to order so they likely won’t want to transfer it out to another store. Your SA will be able to tell you if they think it’s possible to get for you at all and how long it might take.

Thanks so much for the insight - very helpful perspective re: another store giving up a bag investment they’d made. I’ll make an appt with my SA when I’m back in town and do the most direct thing which is ask (rather than continue speculating on the internet )
 
Based on my limited personal experience, I don’t think so. I was able to buy two non quota bags and 1 quota bag in the same year in my highly competitive store. Even in New York, my SA specifically said buying a non quota bag which he had offered to me would help my purchase history towards getting a QB.
That’s great. I assumed the opposite - do you think buying the Pico first would help get my first QB? I was nervous if I asked it would delay the QB or put me on the bottom of the list lol did you buy yours after the QB offer or before?
 
That’s great. I assumed the opposite - do you think buying the Pico first would help get my first QB? I was nervous if I asked it would delay the QB or put me on the bottom of the list lol did you buy yours after the QB offer or before?
In the US, only the ”almost quota” bags will potentially have an SA thinking “oh she just bought an X, I should offer this B to someone who hasn’t gotten anything good recently instead”. Those X bags include the Constance, mini lindy, and all non-quota Kelly named bags (pochette, cut, ado, danse, etc). A Picotin, bigger Lindy, Evelyne, etc shouldn’t have any negative impact.
 
I was offered a mini constance in July of this year. Before I accepted the bag I asked my SA would that mess of my chances of getting a b this year. She *said* no but we shall see. The mini constance in ms was also on my wishlist. I know it has only been July but would still like to be able to get a b this year.

I got my mini constance in April and then got offered a B25 and mini lindy in June. I'm lucky to have a very nice SA.
 
I have realised that shopping in Asia and Europe, where by and large the SAs do not earn individual commission but have targets to hit, may have taken away from me all of this anxiety over "maintaining a relationship". As I shopped over the years I have always gotten to know the SMs and the colleagues of my SAs at various stores, I am introduced to them gradually and while waiting for my own SA, I do sometimes chat with the others in their team. This is something I have always done, as for example in France, Switzerland and Netherlands where I lived, customers always greet the shopkeeper on entering a store. It is a cultural thing and a given to acknowledge at least the SAs who recognise you.

On occasion when I pop by, perhaps to collect a reservation and my own SA happens to be on leave, their colleagues might have been asked help me and as they do not earn commission, it doesn't matter if I do buy something extra with them. This happens as I do not always expect an text or email response ASAP on a request and neither do I panic when I don't get one back in 5 seconds. I pop by either on a whim or sometimes it takes a 13 hour flight to visit the store. At the end of the day purchases are still put under my SA's "number" and the credit goes to the overall department/ store sales. All my purchases have remained in the system except when they did one overhaul at FSH and restarted everything at some point a few years ago.

Eventually if my own SA leaves to another department, is posted out to another city or leaves the business completely, it is generally done very well with my SA handing over my account to the manager, or organically I end up with their closest colleague who has helped me in the past anyway. All previous "wishes" and SO placed remain in the system and 90% have shown up. I do realise how fortunate I am to have so little angst regarding shopping at Hermes.
This is interesting. I’m new to Hermes in Switzerland where I live now. Do the SA not have individual target or commission? Is the maintaining a successful relationship with a Swiss SA not the same as in the US, i.e. helping my SA to succeed to achieve win-win? The rule of thumb of fine jewelry/watch/RTW as high-commission items - does it apply to Switzerland? The Swiss Hermes system is a mystery to me. I have so many questions… :confused1:
The Hermes Switzerland board seems awfully quiet and I can’t find relevant info. If anyone is familiar with the Swiss system, I’d love to learn!
 
This seems to be very different to the approach in Europe where H seems to favour influencers. There are quite a few that are regularly offered bags with almost no pre-spend. Tamara is one example regularly seen on Instagram posts with Michael Coates. Xenia Adonts and Claire Chanelle are others (the latter being a known reseller!)

Are you based in Asia or Australia? I remember all the drama with Purseonfleek where her videos killed her H relationship!
I am too new to Hermes to know about this drama (Purseonfleek). Please humour me with the story! :)
 
Lately, like within the past year, I’ve felt cursed with quality issues:: pairs of shoes either having the leather breaking or having the shearing disintegrated within a month of wear, a strong chemical smell on one RTW piece, an issue with another two RTW pieces arriving damaged, plus earring posts from two pairs becoming bent…and now I’m told by my dry cleaner that they won’t clean another piece of my RTW because they tested it and it’s not color fast - so my only option to have it cleaned is to take it to Hermès…

1) do you think my “luck” or lack thereof with quality issues is going to affect my offers and status as a client - like will I be seen as becoming a problem client?
2) what do I do now that I’m beyond wary with RTW quality, shoe quality, and all - just stick to fine jewelry (but not earrings), homegoods, and silks? Or do I keep buying everything I like (shoes and RTW) and hope for the best, but continue to send things back if there are issues?

I don’t want to lose my VIP perks and status, and I can keep spending levels the same no matter what categories I’m purchasing as I truly love everything… I’m just wondering how my SA and store will see my “problem pieces” — as I’m noticing it’s a much bigger issue lately, unfortunately.
 
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Lately, like within the past year, I’ve felt cursed with quality issues:: pairs of shoes either having the leather breaking or having the shearing disintegrated within a month of wear, a strong chemical smell on one RTW piece, an issue with another two RTW pieces arriving damaged, plus earring posts from two pairs becoming bent…and now I’m told by my dry cleaner that they won’t clean another piece of my RTW because they tested it and it’s not color fast - so my only option to have it cleaned is to take it to Hermès…

1) do you think my “luck” or lack thereof with quality issues is going to affect my offers and status as a client - like will I be seen as becoming a problem client?
2) what do I do now that I’m beyond wary with RTW quality, shoe quality, and all - just stick to fine jewelry (but not earrings), homegoods, and silks? Or do I keep buying everything I like (shoes and RTW) and hope for the best, but continue to send things back if there are issues?

I don’t want to lose my VIP perks and status, and I can keep spending levels the same no matter what categories I’m purchasing as I truly love everything… I’m just wondering how my SA and store will see my “problem pieces” — as, I’m noticing it’s a much bigger issue lately, unfortunately.
I don’t expect stuff to last forever, but I have never faced some of your issues. If I had, I might seriously consider another brand. I’m sorry this happened to you. IMO, your SA should be your best advocate (re your relationship to the brand) and help you select the best items for you going forward.
 
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