Thank you for all the inputs!
The NeoNoe was not seriously on my radar, and after seeing all the comments about the pumpkins looking nicer in women's collection I had half made up my mind to get the pumpkins speedy 20! However I managed to just take a quick visit to the store to try the bag shapes as I have never tried the neonoe or keepall 25 in real life before. They didn't have the pumpkins ones but I got to try other prints.
Initial reactions:
Neonoe - bigger than what I thought it was from the photos! My gut was like, okay I don't want such a big bag.
Keepall 25 - Different from my speedys (which I already have 2) and can probably fit more and things of different shapes (my VCA receipt can't fit in my speedy 20 LOL). Wasn't loving the men's strap but that can be changed easily.
Asked the SA for his honest opinion - first he thinks that the keepall is different from my speedys, it's more different. Should consider. BUT he thinks I should get the neonoe because it's more different from the other bags I already have. Which is true - I have mostly "small" bags - but that's what I use nowadays except when I go to the gym/yoga (which is everyday, but I'm probably not carrying the pumpkins to the gym when I know I will sweat

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I'm so conflicted now!!! The neonoe would be different but I'm not sure how I feel about the size and shape!
Bottom line the SA said: decide quick, because it will all be gone soon. The bandeaus are not orderable anymore!