Thanks, Dani, for defending all the SAs out there! I'm actually a part-time SA for a designer boutique (mostly clothes, not too many bags) and, really, SAs take a lot of crap from people and still try very hard to be pleasant (for the most part, there are certainly some bad seeds!). I find that most customers just want to be left alone when they shop but try very hard to help those who do want help. So if an SA is ignoring you, a few words will probably get him or her to pay more attention to you. We just don't want to be pushy, especially with REALLY expensive clothing or accessories. But I do understand not wanting to shop at stores with less than helpful SAs, I certainly stay away from them too.
BTW, my funniest SA story was when a woman came in with 3 kids to shop for clothes. The store I work for is not kid friendly at all (just not set up to accomodate little kids, we don't mind them!), so the woman was desperately trying to get these 5 year old twin boys to sit still and trying to keep her baby girl from getting too grumpy. She finally picks out all the clothing she wants to try on and just hands me the baby before she goes in the dressing room!! I can't IMAGINE handing some strange woman your baby while you go try on tons of clothes. And the baby was NOT happy to be without her mother, let me tell you. She cried and the boys tore around the store and I thought I was going to lose my mind!! But the woman trying on clothes was as calm as can be. It was crazy...