Would love to see a pic of how your love sits on your wrist if that's easy for you to upload?! Helping in the quest to sort this out!!
IMO this is similar to how my 17 fits and I think the stack looks great on you! What's your wrist size? I also debated between 16 and 17 (16.5 would've been perfect for me, haha!) and went for the latter. There were times that I've thought "hmm maybe I should've picked 16" (because I prefer it to sit higher on my arm) but after the recent heatwave in the UK, I'm so glad that I didn't get the 16 - it would have literally stuck to my arm with very little movement, which would NOT have been fun in the sweltering heat!