Ladies...Any RUDE/CATTY/SNIDE/NASTY Remarks about your Birkins or ANY Hermès Purchase

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Many years ago when I got my first professional job I found myself wearing black shoes about every day. When the soles got worn I would get them replaced but eventually then the sides would give out and it would be time for another pair. One day I got caught in the rain and my black shoes totally stretched and became unwearable. I realized I had gone black-shoe shopping three times in a year and a half, and it felt too inefficient for me. So I splashed out for a pair of Ferragamos, and ..... problem solved! The soles lasted much longer, the sides didn't give out, and no stretch problem. Basically I was sold on the idea of quality as a means to free up time for more meaningful pursuits.

At about the same time I bought my first car, and had a similar experience when realizing how much time goes into buying gasoline, oil changes, windshield wiper replacement, new tires, etc. Of course those things are not optional, but I have often thought: If I could pay an extra $10K when I buy it and never have to stop for gas, I would. Similarly, I would today happily plunk down $5K in order to always have the perfect pair of black pants in my closet. I don't like re-creating the wheel, and that's why I like Hermes. Even so, I would not wear Hermes if it said "Hermes" on it in a visible place, having always felt that if I am to wear a branded object then they can jolly well pay me to do so. Which hasn't happened yet, as I am neither famous nor influential.

Happily I live in a fashion wasteland where my bags are frequently complemented but rarely identified. An amusing exception occurred a few months ago. A colleague introduced me to a friend of his and suggested that I partner with her on a particular project which seemed curious as I had never expressed the desire for a partner, but whatever. Unfortunately I took an instant dislike to the friend for a variety of reasons. Nonetheless I put on my happy face and things were going along swimmingly until she noticed my CDC Kelly like a drug dog alerting on a mule and said "Wow that's a nice bag. I mean that's really a nice bag" complete with histrionic inflection and eye-rolling. A bit of a death-knell considering that this was akin to a job interview on her part.

That night my husband asked how the meeting went, and I told him that I didn't particularly like her but it was OK although she made a snarky remark about my bag. Causing him to roll his eyes in turn and softly moan: Oh no. Oh no no no no ..........
 
I just had a huge fight with my sister-in-law (she owns just 1 LV speedy). I don't know why she hates me so much, maybe she's just jealous of my growing H bag collection. so in the middle of our fight she just blurted out "I can afford a BIRKIN, i just wouldn't spend that much for a bag coz i'm SMART!" so i answered back "hahaha... ok, I admit i'm STUPID coz i'm RICH! and you're SMART coz you have to be smart coz you're POOOOOORRRRR!!!" She walked out! hahahaha....

gee, I wonder what rubs her the wrong way?
 
I just had a huge fight with my sister-in-law (she owns just 1 LV speedy). I don't know why she hates me so much, maybe she's just jealous of my growing H bag collection. so in the middle of our fight she just blurted out "I can afford a BIRKIN, i just wouldn't spend that much for a bag coz i'm SMART!" so i answered back "hahaha... ok, I admit i'm STUPID coz i'm RICH! and you're SMART coz you have to be smart coz you're POOOOOORRRRR!!!" She walked out! hahahaha....

I hope no one's children were in earshot.
 
my sister. on the playground yesterday...a spat over the swings w a fellow 8 year old lol.

but it does sound like SIL is jealous, remember what i never forget abt my in-laws, u love ur husband so u have them in ur life til someone dies so try to be pleasant esp if she has an outburst over a handbag
 
chefcat, I truly enjoyed your black shoes story. Thank you for sharing. :flowers:

As to negative remarks regarding my H items, I really do not get them. To most ppl, my birkins look like Kate Spade bags, and that suits me just fine. :okay:
 
my sister. on the playground yesterday...a spat over the swings w a fellow 8 year old lol.

but it does sound like SIL is jealous, remember what i never forget abt my in-laws, u love ur husband so u have them in ur life til someone dies so try to be pleasant esp if she has an outburst over a handbag


actually she's not my husbands sister, she's the wife of my husbands brother. i dont talk that way to my husbands sibling hehehe....
 
I just had a huge fight with my sister-in-law (she owns just 1 LV speedy). I don't know why she hates me so much, maybe she's just jealous of my growing H bag collection. so in the middle of our fight she just blurted out "I can afford a BIRKIN, i just wouldn't spend that much for a bag coz i'm SMART!" so i answered back "hahaha... ok, I admit i'm STUPID coz i'm RICH! and you're SMART coz you have to be smart coz you're POOOOOORRRRR!!!" She walked out! hahahaha....


:nogood: :tdown:


Wow to say something like this makes you no better!!
 
just saying i am always wary of usernames with the words caca or anything remotely linked to bodily functions :?

not liking how this thread is turning out... can't we all just enjoy our bags H or non H in peace pretty please?

for me i just ignore rude remarks, that is if i am even aware of it in the first place! i'm blissfully oblivious.
 
I say, it's nobody's business how much you paid for the bag. I find it degrading actually that someone should tell you how to spend your hard-earned money. This is precisely why I never tell anyone what the bag is or how much it costs just to avoid the eye rolls unless of course they recognize it and it's too late.

Agree! sadly...sometimes bitter comments come from those who want the bag so much but cannot afford...or sometimes, they cannot simply appreciate and justify value of such expensive purses...I mean I have nothing to those who cannot afford, or to some that are just not into expensive purses but what I hate most is those rude, impolite comments from jealous people....just saying...
 
I remember seeing a comment once which is simply that "hurt people ALWAYS hurt people". I really think there is something in this.

Another phrase which I love is that they are "mood hoovers".

ITA with you guys too incidentally.
 
Hmm. All interesting points to digest. Seems that all agree on the most critical element, nobody should have to endure mean or rude comments for any reason including b/c of carrying an Hermes bag. There is no place for such ungraciousness and hate in 2011.

I find that unfortunately , the OP’s original intent ,re the scope of this thread, has been diluted and replaced with a singularly self important(or fueled by insecurity ) frenzy of “everybody is jealous b/c I have an Hermes bag and they don’t” . I am appalled and shocked by the vast number of posts in the last few pages in this thread that illustrate this small minded perspective. Do these posts really reflect the tfp community in the best light? I think not. If they do , then we all should all be ashamed.
 
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