Ladies...Any RUDE/CATTY/SNIDE/NASTY Remarks about your Birkins or ANY Hermès Purchase

[miyake0214]

I have never had any of my friends say anything negative about my things. Then again, I don´t have that many real friends anyway

If a "friend" of mine said something negative I wouldn´t automatically assume that it was because they were broke/ugly/stupid/ill/unemployed etc. like someone else posted. I would first take a glance at myself and make sure that I wasn´t the one coming off as self-centered, arrogant or narrow minded. Just sayin And I am probably guilty of coming off exactly that way at times

Well-said, Lovely! In the case of the OP, it sounds pretty clear that the problem was with the "friend," not with her or her Birkin. . . but I think it definitely behooves us to at least consider how we present ourselves (whether with or without an H accessory!). Automatically assuming that any negative comment directed at us must be undeserved and a function of the other person's "issues" is inherently arrogant. How refreshing to hear someone say she is willing to examine her own behavior too! Great post!

^^^Well said ladies, as the the aphorism goes,"look in the mirror first before judging".
However, most of the ladies here, if not all, exude confidence, in the manner we talk, walk, in just about anything we do. It can be our natural selves and can't be construed as arrogance. But the problem is others might feel and see it as arrogance.

As long as I am not impinging on others, they can say whatever they want. .

 

[lily25]

I was having lunch with 2 good friends today and someone at the restaurant kicked my So Kelly on purpose! It was almost shot to the other side of the room!
I was too shocked to say anything.

 

[Mindi B]

I was having lunch with 2 good friends today and someone at the restaurant kicked my So Kelly on purpose! It was almost shot to the other side of the room!
I was too shocked to say anything.

SERIOUSLY??!! This is INSANE behavior for an adult!

 

[NewBVfan]

SERIOUSLY??!! This is INSANE behavior for an adult!

Exactly!!! This is crazy!! Can u sue? I am not a lawyer but I dont think anyone should get away with intentionally kicking someone else's purse (no matter how expensive or inexpensive).

 

[lily25]

SERIOUSLY??!! This is INSANE behavior for an adult!

Tell me about it... I knew the person who did it, I don't know if he knows who I am but he knew my 2 friends. Some ppl are so spiteful and out of their minds.

Exactly!!! This is crazy!! Can u sue? I am not a lawyer but I dont think anyone should get away with intentionally kicking someone else's purse (no matter how expensive or inexpensive).

I will not sue because a law suit would drag along my friends (and the restaurant owner , also a good friend) to courts for statements and because they are well known it would get too big for no reason.
As it was done on purpose I think the person who kicked my bag was starving for attention and he is not well psychologically.
I didn't say anything, my friends told me to stay calm, and the crazy person was looking at our table until we left with a crazy smirk. I tell you it was one of the craziest things that have ever happened to me.

 

[loves]

lily that has to be a shocking and surreal moment. that person is clearly insane or emotionally unbalanced. hey silver lining : at least he didn't kick you....

 

[lily25]

That's true! Ok I would kick back if he touched me, I have a short fuse and I can't take physical violence.

 

[loves]

((hugs)) for your so kelly, hope she feels better

 

[lily25]

^ Aw you are very sweet I'll kiss her to feel better

 

[lovely64]

Urgh, that´s insane behaviour lily! I would probably be as perplexed as you had it happened to me. I hope your bag is ok

 

[lily25]

Insane indeed. Turns out the So Kelly can take a beating, or kicking!

 

[tae]

Insane indeed. Turns out the So Kelly can take a beating, or kicking!

OMG; Glad to hear your bag wasn't damaged! Making snide remarks on someones' bag is one thing, but actually physically attacking it is just

 

[azoreh]

It's just downright sad how people react so venomously to H items...I believe it's all down to envy and prejudices. Was chatting with a friend about a croc B I'm dreaming of and she plainly called another friend who has several crocs insane with low self esteem! I defended and said to each his/her own! And this person carries H too so I think she just plain wishes her H budget could carry a croc! All the H nastiness just irritates me!

 

[skyqueen]

Insane indeed. Turns out the So Kelly can take a beating, or kicking!

I bet your Kelly can take a beating better then that asshat!!!
As usual, you handled it beautifully!

 

[lily25]

It's just downright sad how people react so venomously to H items...I believe it's all down to envy and prejudices. Was chatting with a friend about a croc B I'm dreaming of and she plainly called another friend who has several crocs insane with low self esteem! I defended and said to each his/her own! And this person carries H too so I think she just plain wishes her H budget could carry a croc! All the H nastiness just irritates me!

Now you all know who is the insane and has low self esteem in your group...
That was so low to say... She had no right.

skyqueen, trust me it took a lot of effort to stay calm, but the shock was grand and I just down with a face like that :weird:... On the brighter side of things a very prestigious writer picked up my bag, and made sure I was ok heheee!