I was 18 when I bought my first designer bag with my allowance. Anything much younger than that is too young. And there will be a sense of entitlement anyways. Unless she has a job and buys it herself. End of story.
I had this discussion with my SO. We had differing opinions.
I agree you don't want to raise a child with an entitled attitude who doesn't appreciate things, but on the other hand I think the type of person they become has much more to do with other aspects: rules, expectations, goals,etc as opposed to gifts.
I also believe the likes/dislikes and maturity level of the child factor in as well.
I don't think a pochette is an unreasonable gift for an older teen (16+) but it also depends on that person & the circumstances around the gift (ie not "happy birthday, merry Christmas, happy 31st of the month, here's a bag")
I think something to commemorate a milestone birthday or accomplishment is reasonable.
This is coming from someone who's first LV was a gift to herself after being 6 months into her first job at the age of 29. But I had leather coach bags as a teenager.
What do you think?
I couldn't agree more! Love your story!I wonder if, like you, she wouldn't appreciate it more if she worked for it as you did. I didn't buy my first designer bag, a Chanel when I was 35, once I was very secure in a good job making 100K a year as a gift to myself. I also consider handbags and jewelry as decent investments. I raised my kids to believe in that as well, and my boys will happily invest in a good piece of clothing or shoes or a watch and they will take great care of it. It's also a good safety net, because unlike money, it won't run out and will always be there to sell if need be and won't depreciate as much as a car or even a house sometimes. But they need to buy it or really accomplish something for me to buy it, so that they always appreciate it. They have been with me when we searched through the car seat for enough change to buy milk, so they appreciate anything, I think.
I'm more concern about is there maximum age limit for carrying Louis Vuitton? I'm too old to worry about minimum age. Lol