Sparks107 - I went back and looked at your original post and the photos you included of you trying on the red K35 as a proxy for the actual Barenia bag you're considering. I wanted to just add that IMO, I dont think those specific photos give you the best indication of how a VO Barenia K35 with a wide canvas strap will actually look or feel on you. I went back and looked at them and for what it's worth, I think
1) the thinner standard K strap reads completely differently than a wide canvas strap and on a K35 I feel it is relatively dainty and actually not comfortable enough for dealing with the bag's weight
2) as worn in those photos, the K35 with the standard strap hits you at the wrong place on your body. Adjusting that hang length will dramatically affect how that bag appears on you (it will still be big/wide but it will look very different)
3) all bags have a purpose. so if this is a daily "workhorse" consideration....if you want to carry the things you say, a K32 or a K28 will be a tight squeeze. I know lots of women here are very happy with the K32 or K28 capacity...but as someone who tends to carry A LOT for work and play, for ME the K32 capacity and dimensions are tight for a workhorse bag. On a daily basis, I typically carry large-ish ziparound wallet, sunglasses, reading glasses, make up bag, water bottle, moleskin notebook, occasionally an ipad pro, pens, scarf, earbuds, iphone 8, extra charger/brick. I'm typically on the go throughout the week, moving around alot (I don't work at a desk all day every day).
So for me, the other daily workhorse bag choices I'll use if not my K35 are a 32 Plume VN, a Picotin TGM, a Paris Bombay 37, or actually a Fjallraven Kanken laptop backpack

That's how much utility I need! I'm relatively casual in my day to day life including work meetings.
Maybe you're the same?