Nothing in my bag matches, today I am carrying my Pond Ergo tote, with my blue soho wristlet, I have my Legacy wrislet in there also and a brown and pink miniskinny and a blue makeup bag and a striped pencil case with my sunglasses in and and a few other things and nothing matches, the strips on my legacy wrislet, are different the the lining of my purse.
I'm one of those anal people that WANT it to match and have to get over the fact that it doesn't. LOL Like right now I'm carrying my grass Heritage stripe tote with a dark brown mini cc Soho wallet & my burnt orange Ergo capacity wristlet. So none of that matches at all. LOL
I'm not matchy-matchy but if it's not a neutral color accessory I probably wouldn't use it... for example I recently bought an orange mini skinny but do not think I will use it in my berry hobo... but then again like my sis says "it's inside ur bag- who's gonna know u don't match!"
I love variety and using complimentary colors rather than everything being matchy matchy.... although if I really love a line (the old sig stripe stuff in gunmetal in particular) then I will get things to match! Do whatever you like!
I've never had matching accessories until recently. It's completely up to you and what you like and don't like. In fact, sometimes I really like a bag, but don't like the wallet or wristlet that matches, so I don't even think about getting it and will make do with whatever I already have. On the other hand, there have been some accessories that I obsess over and have to have in order to have a matching set. Of course, this has only happened once.