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#46
Just wanted to let you guys know i just ended it.. for good. He had a total fit and basically started insulting everything from my clothes & bags to my character as a person and accusing me of everything he could possibly think of. I know it needed to be done, it's just hard when you get attached.. I'm thankful i didn't let myself date him for very long.


You guys are seriously so sweet and caring, you deserve all the Spy's, Paddington's, Stam's, Speedy's, and Birkin's in the world:heart:
 
#47
sammydoll said:
Just wanted to let you guys know i just ended it.. for good. He had a total fit and basically started insulting everything from my clothes & bags to my character as a person and accusing me of everything he could possibly think of. I know it needed to be done, it's just hard when you get attached.. I'm thankful i didn't let myself date him for very long.


You guys are seriously so sweet and caring, you deserve all the Spy's, Paddington's, Stam's, Speedy's, and Birkin's in the world:heart:
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Good for you! This guy had too many red flags and your conversation was just a reflection of that. Hope the next guy is what you're looking for!
 
#48
my bf says some similar comments but he knows when to stop.. he does it in a joking manner.... and then, i talk about his golf and computer stuff, so it stops.... and i don't think he will like a cold treatment either so he has learned his lesson.. if it is your money, do whatever pleases you.. if it's a $1000+ bag, then go for it...... it's your money...
 
#49
well, sorry that the relationship had to end.. but seems that you made the best choice right now... wish u all the happiness and more bags.. hehe
 
#51
sammydoll said:
Just wanted to let you guys know i just ended it.. for good. He had a total fit and basically started insulting everything from my clothes & bags to my character as a person and accusing me of everything he could possibly think of. I know it needed to be done, it's just hard when you get attached.. I'm thankful i didn't let myself date him for very long.


You guys are seriously so sweet and caring, you deserve all the Spy's, Paddington's, Stam's, Speedy's, and Birkin's in the world:heart:
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I know ending relationships are tough but it also opens a whole new chapter for you! I always found it a bit exciting when I was single as I could go and do as I pleased and never had to answer to anyone. Also, you can purchase as many bags as you wish and no one will say anything! :yahoo:

You will realize even more with time that you definately made the right choice! Keep us informed and I wish you the love you deserve!
 
#52
sammydoll said:
Just wanted to let you guys know i just ended it.. for good. He had a total fit and basically started insulting everything from my clothes & bags to my character as a person and accusing me of everything he could possibly think of. I know it needed to be done, it's just hard when you get attached.. I'm thankful i didn't let myself date him for very long.


You guys are seriously so sweet and caring, you deserve all the Spy's, Paddington's, Stam's, Speedy's, and Birkin's in the world:heart:
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I'm really sorry to hear about your relationship ... remember to stay strong! Don't second guess yourself, you know what's best for you:yes:
 
#54
sammydoll said:
Just wanted to let you guys know i just ended it.. for good. He had a total fit and basically started insulting everything from my clothes & bags to my character as a person and accusing me of everything he could possibly think of. I know it needed to be done, it's just hard when you get attached.. I'm thankful i didn't let myself date him for very long.


You guys are seriously so sweet and caring, you deserve all the Spy's, Paddington's, Stam's, Speedy's, and Birkin's in the world:heart:
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Well done! :heart:

It's not even about the purses but this guy was treating you horribly. When I was 24, I was going out with a guy who all put me down all the time: my clothes, my views, my appearance. Once, I got upset and tried to talk about it, he juts retorted, "WEll I was the one who asked you out, wasn't I?" L:uckilly I saw sense and and ended it not long after that.

And to be honest, being single after that relationship was good. I learnt to be comfortable with myself and not to settle for second best.

So.... are you going to trat yourself to a purse? :graucho:
 
#55
Sorry that it ended with him acting like a total loser.

Good for you for standing up for yourself. Yes, please tell us which purse you are going to buy to celebrate this momentous occasion!!!!!

Anne
 
#57
I think the way he spoke to you was quite inconsiderate, he should respect your likes and needs.(Especially since it is your money you're spending on those bags.)Then again, I'm sure theres more to him that the few sentences us forum members have seen.
Maybe you shouldnt advise him before buying the bags, that way he wouldn't know and can't make those comments.:sneaky:
 
#58
It's your money right? He didnt purchase the bags for you? So just tell him to STFU and mind his own biz!

He's only a BF right now, can you imagine if he's your DH? You can see the signs already here..
 
#59
sammydoll said:
We've only been dating like 6 months.. We don't even live together.. He's just being an *******. My family and i have money (although we are not rich) and the money for my handbags is just from a part time job.. I don't have other bills (rent, morage, car payments, etc.) to pay, and this is how i like to spend my money. He will constantly just tell me that i could get the same thing at Ross or whatever and just generally insult me and others who like to spend their money on designer and couture things. I don't know.. he doesn't have much money himself, and sometimes i think he's just scared cause he knows he can't support my shopping habbits.. but he's SO harsh and i've assured him i don't expect him to buy me these things.. :shrugs: i'm starting to think he just isn't right for me..
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You might be right about him possibly not being right for you. The best way to tell for sure is to never discuss handbag purchases with him again and pay attention to how he reacts to other things you do for yourself and/or others. (That is, if you plan to let him stay around long enough to do that.:laugh: ) A person who is good for you wants to to be happy...they're usually supportive of things you love that don't hurt you in any way.
 
#60
sammydoll said:
Just wanted to let you guys know i just ended it.. for good. He had a total fit and basically started insulting everything from my clothes & bags to my character as a person and accusing me of everything he could possibly think of. I know it needed to be done, it's just hard when you get attached.. I'm thankful i didn't let myself date him for very long.


You guys are seriously so sweet and caring, you deserve all the Spy's, Paddington's, Stam's, Speedy's, and Birkin's in the world:heart:
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Good for you!!! *HUG* He was probably jealous anyway.
 
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