I need some advice on this Tiffany ring and situation please
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Please tell me I'm not the only one seeing red flags left and right with this guy?
Dude, these are so totally not the only two options in life.
OP - You deserve way better. Forget about this woman and move on. You have gotten good feedback from many women from here. As a woman, I personally would not play this never ending game if I have no feelings for someone. She is obviously attracted to your gifts only. Move on while you are still young. There are many great women out there who would appreciate and love you for who you are. Stop thinking about her. If you continue to think about her, you are going to wake up one day when you are a lot older and realized that you had made a huge mistake.
Your point? I'm being blunt about how a guy can be. That's the way most guys are. Get your head out of the sand and face reality.
I'll see her at work anyway on Monday..... In one of her pretty silk blouses, and red soled heels, smiling at me with that look and the pretty glow of her skin. I can just imagine the humiliation.
Sounds like she likes expensive things and has clicked you would give them!
Sorry to hear it went wrong but on the bright side it's her loss and there's a girl out there waiting for a guy like You to spoil her.
Get out there and take pleasure in indulging her with all the information about brilliant files you're meeting!
Little tip, no more presents until you're well and truly dating a girl! It helps sieve out the money grabbers and superficial ones!!!
Remember this will be a memory soon and you'll have moved on
Sounds like she likes expensive things and has clicked you would give them!
Sorry to hear it went wrong but on the bright side it's her loss and there's a girl out there waiting for a guy like You to spoil her.
Get out there and take pleasure in indulging her with all the information about brilliant files you're meeting!
Little tip, no more presents until you're well and truly dating a girl! It helps sieve out the money grabbers and superficial ones!!!
Remember this will be a memory soon and you'll have moved on
Yeah no worries. Plus this is the way I figured it would end: in about 6 months this guy will be So over sleeping with her and will have found someone new and he will kick her to the curb.
Then I'll be way out of law school and when she comes crying to me for emotional friendship advice, I'll just stare at her before bursting into laughter in her face and compliment her on how "pretty" the crappy $99 macys heart necklace he gave her after she put out 10 times looks around her neck.
and then I'll get up and leave - and remind her I'm a criminal lawyer not a psychologist.As horrible as it is right now at least you have something for the ring - which doesn't need to be used immediately - and you can draw a line under the situation with her.
In my opinion, if she's not the right one for you then there are plenty of better people out there even if it seems impossible. They may even have better skin and shoes
In six months there may be someone, not necessarily the love of your life, but someone who lights a spark in you and so you buy them a little something. And you feel a bit more indifferent to your friend, even if you still care deeply for her. I guess its all a bit How I Met Your Mother in my view! Its about the destination and bearing out the journey; not the rocks you hit along the way.
It was a gorgeous ring for a lovely intention and you will have more of them with other people. If there is just one person for you, it wouldn't have ended this way - twice - and instead you should hold your head up high on Monday as painful as it may be and keep going in your life with this woman as only a good friend. Don't waste good taste in jewellery on someone who doesn't deserve it!
EDIT Just saw the above - don't let her change your spirit, if that situation happens you don't need to laugh or belittle her just because she did you. Keep a good heart.
In my opinion, if she's not the right one for you then there are plenty of better people out there even if it seems impossible. They may even have better skin and shoes
In six months there may be someone, not necessarily the love of your life, but someone who lights a spark in you and so you buy them a little something. And you feel a bit more indifferent to your friend, even if you still care deeply for her. I guess its all a bit How I Met Your Mother in my view! Its about the destination and bearing out the journey; not the rocks you hit along the way.
It was a gorgeous ring for a lovely intention and you will have more of them with other people. If there is just one person for you, it wouldn't have ended this way - twice - and instead you should hold your head up high on Monday as painful as it may be and keep going in your life with this woman as only a good friend. Don't waste good taste in jewellery on someone who doesn't deserve it!
EDIT Just saw the above - don't let her change your spirit, if that situation happens you don't need to laugh or belittle her just because she did you. Keep a good heart.
As horrible as it is right now at least you have something for the ring - which doesn't need to be used immediately - and you can draw a line under the situation with her.
In my opinion, if she's not the right one for you then there are plenty of better people out there even if it seems impossible. They may even have better skin and shoes
In six months there may be someone, not necessarily the love of your life, but someone who lights a spark in you and so you buy them a little something. And you feel a bit more indifferent to your friend, even if you still care deeply for her. I guess its all a bit How I Met Your Mother in my view! Its about the destination and bearing out the journey; not the rocks you hit along the way.
It was a gorgeous ring for a lovely intention and you will have more of them with other people. If there is just one person for you, it wouldn't have ended this way - twice - and instead you should hold your head up high on Monday as painful as it may be and keep going in your life with this woman as only a good friend. Don't waste good taste in jewellery on someone who doesn't deserve it!
EDIT Just saw the above - don't let her change your spirit, if that situation happens you don't need to laugh or belittle her just because she did you. Keep a good heart.
Oh please, why would I ever want to hear her woes in my ear.
I'm not angry, I'm disappointed. Nothing is inappropriate about my gift giving, just because you're young doesn't mean you should be giving people ****ty gifts. Don't be jealous, ok.
I agree, great advice...And to those who said she wasn't worthy of the ring are you saying this based on the fact that she's simply not interested in this guy? That should not take away the fact that she could be a great girl just not the girl for this guy.
My advice would be to learn from this situation so it doesn't happen again. Read the signs a woman gives, we are sometimes not that hard to figure out.
Good luck to you!
My advice would be to learn from this situation so it doesn't happen again. Read the signs a woman gives, we are sometimes not that hard to figure out.
Good luck to you!
Why do this? Focus your energy on being a better person and your school work. By putting out more positive energy you will attract the person for you....
Why hurt someone whose intentions may not have been to hurt you? Move on, life is too short to be bitter....
Why hurt someone whose intentions may not have been to hurt you? Move on, life is too short to be bitter....
Yeah no worries. Plus this is the way I figured it would end: in about 6 months this guy will be So over sleeping with her and will have found someone new and he will kick her to the curb.
Then I'll be way out of law school and when she comes crying to me for emotional friendship advice, I'll just stare at her before bursting into laughter in her face and compliment her on how "pretty" the crappy $99 macys heart necklace he gave her after she put out 10 times looks around her neck.
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