I agree somewhat with puteri and the rest. Before my husband became my husband, he'd never interfere with how I spend my money. But once we got married, he'd tell me to save "my" money for "us". I couldn't really see his point at that time 'cos I couldn't see why things should change after marriage. Until 1 day he sat me down and talked to me and told me his concerns. A lot of what he's doing is for the future and what he had learnt from his family's past on how to manage $. He wanted to start a family soon as well and told me we had to save up for that. Furthermore, he cut his spending on his own hobby and beer and put his money where his mouth was and once put in the perspective that he's not intent on spoiling my fun for the heck of it but for the good of our family's future, I had an easier time understanding and compromising on things.
Likewise, we don't know your husband or his story behind him wanting to curb your spending and we don't know your marriage. He should be "supportive" enough of your LV obsession if he was willing to buy you the Aurelia as a X'mas present...keep that in mind and then put on a clear and calm head and have a good talk - make him talk! Maybe he feels a tinge of jealousy since u started taking up LV - have u been spending time with everyone here than with him dearie (especially if he doesn't have his own hobby)? Communication is all the more important in a marriage and never let anger cloud your judgement. Everyone's been giving good advice so u may want to go through the posts and see how u can work things out. Of course, if after talking, he's a meanie..then I'd say stand ur ground, girl! I'm sorry if I have offended u or anyone else in any way...I really do hope things work out nicely between u and ur husband 'cos u r so nice in the forum and all...just to let u know that we at tpf r supporting u all the way!
Likewise, we don't know your husband or his story behind him wanting to curb your spending and we don't know your marriage. He should be "supportive" enough of your LV obsession if he was willing to buy you the Aurelia as a X'mas present...keep that in mind and then put on a clear and calm head and have a good talk - make him talk! Maybe he feels a tinge of jealousy since u started taking up LV - have u been spending time with everyone here than with him dearie (especially if he doesn't have his own hobby)? Communication is all the more important in a marriage and never let anger cloud your judgement. Everyone's been giving good advice so u may want to go through the posts and see how u can work things out. Of course, if after talking, he's a meanie..then I'd say stand ur ground, girl! I'm sorry if I have offended u or anyone else in any way...I really do hope things work out nicely between u and ur husband 'cos u r so nice in the forum and all...just to let u know that we at tpf r supporting u all the way!