Hollywood Exes vh1

why ? i have not been on a first date in 13yrs

If you don't like the person, you are stuck having to sit through a meal. If you just go for drinks, you can have just one drink and then you can bounce because you only committed to a drink. Also, if you have lunch, most people know you only get an hour for lunch, so again you don't have to sit there if you don't like each other.