Based on the discussion above, I agree with some of the other responses that maybe your SA may have been trying to just set your expectations realistically, however I think he could have gone about it with a little more empathy.From his response, I think I wont ask again until I feel like Ive spent close to 2:1. Its a mix feeling. SA is friendly but pushy to purchase things but then again I might just be taking it the wrong way. Its just different from my SA when I was in San Francisco.
Anyhow, I know I said earlier I would switch SAs, however, after being roughly halfway towards your goal, I feel like I'd have a hard time essentially starting over unless the shopping experience was truly unbearable. If it's just your SA being blunt/overtly honest, then maybe you just have to get accustomed to his personality and not take it personally. I know it's ideal to have a "friendly" relationship with your SA (is that too much to ask!?! haha), however at the end of the day, this is really a business relationship, so keep that in mind.
Good luck!