Madison Avenue and the holidays
I avoid. I don’t text requests. I don’t even text for appts bc his schedules change during this time of year. He does know I’m in the area (two blocks away) twice mid week, so if I need something , I just text, are you free? That way he can respond with an affirmative emoticon yes
. No reply or a sad one
means no. No harm, no foul.
Re holiday gifts, i give a few scarves and things to the same people. SA said no problem, I have the mailing addresses. He picks. (Last year, he even googled one of the friends names to get a photo, and he picked what he thought I would have chosen to give them. He chooses better than I do. My recipients love their gifts. (Since they don’t know each other, they get the same one, which makes it easy for us to remember). It takes us less than two minutes in person to pick a scarf and colorway and send. (I would never dream of sending him a request or list and expecting him to fulfill without me there in person. He’s not a short order cook. I would feel weird doing that.
Honestly, the closest an SA has ever said to “you should come see me more,” is “how has your summer been; I’ve missed you.” I would be profoundly irritated if an SA told me I should do anything like that. But, I’m pretty relaxed about my offers; not after an instgram worthy bag; and, straightforward.
By the way, if an SA told me that they don’t have time until after the end of the year to see me, I would say, then let me know if you or your SM recommend a specific colleague for when I next come in. Because if an SA wants to see you, they will make the time.
I avoid. I don’t text requests. I don’t even text for appts bc his schedules change during this time of year. He does know I’m in the area (two blocks away) twice mid week, so if I need something , I just text, are you free? That way he can respond with an affirmative emoticon yes


Re holiday gifts, i give a few scarves and things to the same people. SA said no problem, I have the mailing addresses. He picks. (Last year, he even googled one of the friends names to get a photo, and he picked what he thought I would have chosen to give them. He chooses better than I do. My recipients love their gifts. (Since they don’t know each other, they get the same one, which makes it easy for us to remember). It takes us less than two minutes in person to pick a scarf and colorway and send. (I would never dream of sending him a request or list and expecting him to fulfill without me there in person. He’s not a short order cook. I would feel weird doing that.
Honestly, the closest an SA has ever said to “you should come see me more,” is “how has your summer been; I’ve missed you.” I would be profoundly irritated if an SA told me I should do anything like that. But, I’m pretty relaxed about my offers; not after an instgram worthy bag; and, straightforward.
By the way, if an SA told me that they don’t have time until after the end of the year to see me, I would say, then let me know if you or your SM recommend a specific colleague for when I next come in. Because if an SA wants to see you, they will make the time.
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