If you go into Madison and have a better vibe with another SA, shop with whomever you feel comfortable, but I personally would advise sticking to your current SA and ironing out any miscommunication bc she has the most incentive to advocate for you with the SM. i went back and reread the posts, and I do think it’s very likely that she wanted to get you a bag (probably a 28) and the SM overruled when a bigger spender came by. IMO management may have even pulled prior reserves when they saw the first day numbers.
No one will tell you the inner workings of an SM decision, and it’s not a matter of ‘finding’ an honest or straightforward SA. H business practice is simply to prioritize top clients and encourage others to buy consolation merchandise. The most an SA can say is that they do not have the final authority. Even if you have another SA, you still are subject to the SMs decision. Note: it’s the amount you have spent at the Madison location that counts the most re QB; but an SA will advocate harder for a client that is exclusive to them.
There is significantly higher demand for smaller bags, so greater unofficial prespend. I personally don’t think your prespend of 16K (1.5X?) is anywhere close to a 25K. Prespend may be why your SA originally said a 25K is unlikely for a first bag. Mine was 5X plus which I spent while waiting for my 25B sellier. I believe
@Tykhe and others have had similar experiences. Whether or not you feel like you need a 25 bc you are petite doesn’t really make any difference to the SM. I still advise do not ever buy anything you don’t love. It’s much better to go back a few times to see a piece of RTW than to have to return. returns are not good for anyones profile.
this is NY where many only wear classic neutrals. Hermes is known for its bright colors, but I would guess that it orders a lot of bags in neutrals. i don’t have a wish list or a time limit, and bags eventually come that I love. Either way, for Madison, it’s best to temper one’s expectations and be patient. JMO and YMMV