What I see in the scarf threads is a real generosity of spirit. I'm a scarf amateur but when I have popped in with a question (like "what colorway?) the feedback is genuine and friendly. It's also lovely to see all the shared compliments.
I was having a drink recently with a tPFer who's a big scarfie and they actually advised me that when the forum gets frustrating or annoying, the scarf threads are a great place to spend time

One difference in scarves is that there are no "strategy" discussions on how to "prespend" or "handle" an SA or "score a QB". These types of bag discussions tend to bring out newbies with questions that have been asked 1000 times, newbies with fire in their bellies ("I hate Paris!") and folks who are adamant that they know all there is to know about Hermès. The latter will not stand for any alternate opinions or experiences
I WISH this were surprising. But we have seen this with TRR prior.
Wishing everyone a lovely day; it's a rainy Paris morning and I am off to the boulangerie, like a true cliché, to return with armfuls of warm bread