Folks, is there a way to contact eBay about a pending refund without necessarily opening a claim?
Long story: I purchased a Louis Vuitton small luggage tag that was supposed to be vintage/refurbished. When I got it, the 'Louis Vuitton Made in France' stamp was almost gone. I've purchased many vintage items throughout the years and I was not expecting perfection, but the stamping being erased bothered me. I saw the seller accepted returns so I started one and sent the item back right away.
A few days later (09/20) I received an email from Paypal saying that my refund was delayed because it was declined by the sender's bank. Today (09/27) it is still showing up as 'pending'. I went to eBay just to check things out and saw that the seller left me a very unfair message (something about me being very picky and for other sellers to be beware of selling me designer goods, that I have a "bad habit of buying and returning my order with or without issues" -- lol, I've been on eBay for 12 years and never received a negative feedback and can't even remember the last time I returned something, if ever). Anyways, I really don't want to do anything combative because the seller is clearly not very reasonable but at the same time I'd love to check the status of my money.
Thoughts?
ETA: Was able to contact Paypal, they said the refund has until 10/01 to clear, and after that point I can file a claim if not cleared. I just hope this guy doesn't leave me that nasty comment as feedback...