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This isn’t an eBay question but I’d love some opinions. I consigned a limited edition LV with a local consignment shop. They called me today and told me to pick it up, as they’d been unable to sell it and a couple of other small items.

The owner had my items in a shopping bag, pulled them out at light speed to show me and tried to hustle me out. Since my LV wasn’t in its dust bag, I opened the bag to make sure it was still there. It was and so was an ink mark on the top of the bag. The bag is a frame satchel (Cuir Cinema Intrigue) and the mark was on the frame. It was blatantly obvious.

When I pointed it out, the owner’s immediate response was: (1) we don’t use ink and (2) maybe it was there when I brought it in.

Her tags are hand written and in ink and I pointed that out. I demolished her next argument by saying, wouldn’t she have noted the ink on the consignment form and priced the bag accordingly if it was there when I brought it in?

She then snatched the bag from my hands and told me to leave it with her and she has someone who can get the ink out.

I’m not optimistic about the results she’s bound to get and will deal with that when it happens, most likely telling her that since she broke it, she bought it. I have pictures from when it was in my possession and the consignment forms to back up my position.

I want to leave a review on Yelp because her behavior and attitude call for it. My question is timing. Do I do it now, for leverage or wait until she’s really bungled things and I have to threaten to drag her to small claims court?

You can tell I’m not very optimistic about how this will go.
 
This isn’t an eBay question but I’d love some opinions. I consigned a limited edition LV with a local consignment shop. They called me today and told me to pick it up, as they’d been unable to sell it and a couple of other small items.

The owner had my items in a shopping bag, pulled them out at light speed to show me and tried to hustle me out. Since my LV wasn’t in its dust bag, I opened the bag to make sure it was still there. It was and so was an ink mark on the top of the bag. The bag is a frame satchel (Cuir Cinema Intrigue) and the mark was on the frame. It was blatantly obvious.

When I pointed it out, the owner’s immediate response was: (1) we don’t use ink and (2) maybe it was there when I brought it in.

Her tags are hand written and in ink and I pointed that out. I demolished her next argument by saying, wouldn’t she have noted the ink on the consignment form and priced the bag accordingly if it was there when I brought it in?

She then snatched the bag from my hands and told me to leave it with her and she has someone who can get the ink out.

I’m not optimistic about the results she’s bound to get and will deal with that when it happens, most likely telling her that since she broke it, she bought it. I have pictures from when it was in my possession and the consignment forms to back up my position.

I want to leave a review on Yelp because her behavior and attitude call for it. My question is timing. Do I do it now, for leverage or wait until she’s really bungled things and I have to threaten to drag her to small claims court?

You can tell I’m not very optimistic about how this will go.
I wouldn't leave the review until everything is resolved. You are hoping for the best possible outcome and you aren't going to get that if you antagonize her.
 
This isn’t an eBay question but I’d love some opinions. I consigned a limited edition LV with a local consignment shop. They called me today and told me to pick it up, as they’d been unable to sell it and a couple of other small items.

The owner had my items in a shopping bag, pulled them out at light speed to show me and tried to hustle me out. Since my LV wasn’t in its dust bag, I opened the bag to make sure it was still there. It was and so was an ink mark on the top of the bag. The bag is a frame satchel (Cuir Cinema Intrigue) and the mark was on the frame. It was blatantly obvious.

When I pointed it out, the owner’s immediate response was: (1) we don’t use ink and (2) maybe it was there when I brought it in.

Her tags are hand written and in ink and I pointed that out. I demolished her next argument by saying, wouldn’t she have noted the ink on the consignment form and priced the bag accordingly if it was there when I brought it in?

She then snatched the bag from my hands and told me to leave it with her and she has someone who can get the ink out.

I’m not optimistic about the results she’s bound to get and will deal with that when it happens, most likely telling her that since she broke it, she bought it. I have pictures from when it was in my possession and the consignment forms to back up my position.

I want to leave a review on Yelp because her behavior and attitude call for it. My question is timing. Do I do it now, for leverage or wait until she’s really bungled things and I have to threaten to drag her to small claims court?

You can tell I’m not very optimistic about how this will go.

I wouldn't leave the review until everything is resolved. You are hoping for the best possible outcome and you aren't going to get that if you antagonize her.

Thanks! I’m just really ticked off and it helps to have a second opinion.
I agree with @whateve but I might tell her that "I came here because of your good reputation. I trust you'll do right by me. Word of mouth can be the best or the worst type of advertising and you know as well as I that the ink wasn't there when I brought the bag in."

Depending on the value of the amount of loss, you might even consider small claims if they don't resolve it appropriately. Presumably, the shop is local and filing a small claims action is inexpensive. You wouldn't have anything to lose other than the filing fee.
 
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I agree with @whateve but I might tell her that "I came here because of your good reputation. I trust you'll do right by me. Word of mouth can be the best or the worst type of advertising and you know as well as I that the ink wasn't there when I brought the bag in."

Depending on the value of the amount of loss, you might even consider small claims if they don't resolve it appropriately. Presumably, the shop is local and filing a small claims action is inexpensive. You wouldn't have anything to lose other than the filing fee.

Oh believe me, I’m prepared to file a complaint in small claims if I have to. Hopefully, it won’t come to that but she’s already made a couple of missteps in her handling of the situation.
 
I posted about 2 returns above, question is what to do or how to let ebay know that seller has no intention of picking up the missed package at the post office? It’s been at her local post office since Monday. I don’t want it back as my return address is on the label. Seller has problems accepting the fact that she sold a replica and not happy when ebay decided in my favor with shipping return label. TIA
 
I posted about 2 returns above, question is what to do or how to let ebay know that seller has no intention of picking up the missed package at the post office? It’s been at her local post office since Monday. I don’t want it back as my return address is on the label. Seller has problems accepting the fact that she sold a replica and not happy when ebay decided in my favor with shipping return label. TIA
Call ebay and have them look at the tracking showing that the seller hasn't picked up the package. Explain that she's not picking it up, expecting not to have to issue the refund if she doesn't accept it. Request (strongly) that it's time for them to close the dispute in your favor and issue your refund.
 
I posted about 2 returns above, question is what to do or how to let ebay know that seller has no intention of picking up the missed package at the post office? It’s been at her local post office since Monday. I don’t want it back as my return address is on the label. Seller has problems accepting the fact that she sold a replica and not happy when ebay decided in my favor with shipping return label. TIA
The post office allows almost 20 days for package pick-ups so I think you'd have to wait until that amount of time passes? Someone could be away on vacay or something, so it's only after almost 3 weeks that they assume the package won't be retrieved and then send it back. I would assume ebay would tell you that you have to wait it out.
 
The post office allows almost 20 days for package pick-ups so I think you'd have to wait until that amount of time passes? Someone could be away on vacay or something, so it's only after almost 3 weeks that they assume the package won't be retrieved and then send it back. I would assume ebay would tell you that you have to wait it out.
I took BB advice and called ebay, they made notes and successfully closet out the case and refunded me by the time I hung up! It’ll take a few days for money to hit PP since that was my payment method. Told the rep that since seller stands behind her product (NOT!!) she should claim it from post office. Obviously no owner with a genuine designer bag worth 1.5K would leave it at post office for a week, that’s the irony. If she’s away she’d reschedule for redelivery for upon her return, but nada is happened.
 
I took BB advice and called ebay, they made notes and successfully closet out the case and refunded me by the time I hung up! It’ll take a few days for money to hit PP since that was my payment method. Told the rep that since seller stands behind her product (NOT!!) she should claim it from post office. Obviously no owner with a genuine designer bag worth 1.5K would leave it at post office for a week, that’s the irony. If she’s away she’d reschedule for redelivery for upon her return, but nada is happened.
I don't know what a BB is, but I'm glad it worked out for you:smile: It is very hard to get to the post office when you work all day and they close the pick up windows so early. I have often left designer bags I ordered just sitting there because it takes 7+ days to get down there. Not a fun place to retrieve packages. Even when you ask for a re-schedule they don't always do it. Ebay & the post office are equally frustrating!!
 
I don't know what a BB is, but I'm glad it worked out for you:smile: It is very hard to get to the post office when you work all day and they close the pick up windows so early. I have often left designer bags I ordered just sitting there because it takes 7+ days to get down there. Not a fun place to retrieve packages. Even when you ask for a re-schedule they don't always do it. Ebay & the post office are equally frustrating!!
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I sold a new Pandora bracelet over 3 weeks ago and received an email from the buyer a couple of days ago complaining they hadn't received it and had paid nearly a month ago.

I checked the tracking details that were displayed on EBay (2 clicks!) and 'delivery had been attempted, a while you were out card left" .........all just couple of days after payment had been received.
I posted the item the day the buyer paid and I also emailed her that day stating it had been dispatched and the tracking information updated.

I emailed her all these details and she's said she'll go to the Post Office today to see if they still have it!! Grghhhhhh......my guess is she either changed her mind or I know not what?.? Royal Mail would have stated on the card they keep items for 18 days, I expect it's on its way back to me by now and she probably knows that. It's been 25 days and the turnaround time is slow for the return........I've been in this position before :graucho:

Buyers like this make me so :mad: :mad: :mad: WHY WOULD YOU BUY SOMETHING,THEN NOT ACCEPT IT!!

What would you do? I'm sure she'll soon be asking for her money back and the item hasn't come back to me yet.........my best option is that it's lost as at least I can claim the full amount back from RM. If it comes back to me I've lost a month and the postage cost and I've got the hassle of re-selling
 
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I sold a new Pandora bracelet over 3 weeks ago and received an email from the buyer a couple of days ago complaining they hadn't received it and had paid nearly a month ago.

I checked the tracking details that were displayed on EBay (2 clicks!) and 'delivery had been attempted, a while you were out card left" .........all just couple of days after payment had been received.
I posted the item the day the buyer paid and I also emailed her that day stating it had been dispatched and the tracking information updated.

I emailed her all these details and she's said she'll go to the Post Office today to see if they still have it!! Grghhhhhh......my guess is she either changed her mind or I know not what?.? Royal Mail would have stated on the card they keep items for 18 days, I expect it's on its way back to me by now and she probably knows that. It's been 25 days and the turnaround time is slow for the return........I've been in this position before :graucho:

Buyers like this make me so :mad: :mad: :mad: WHY WOULD YOU BUY SOMETHING,THEN NOT ACCEPT IT!!

What would you do? I'm sure she'll soon be asking for her money back and the item hasn't come back to me yet.........my best option is that it's lost as at least I can claim the full amount back from RM. If it comes back to me I've lost a month and the postage cost and I've got the hassle of re-selling
If the buyer opened INR, respond with tracking and pointing out that delivery was attempted and a notice left. Also call ebay and have them look at the tracking to see that she didn't retrieve the package but that you'd sent and clearly delivery was attempted. Point out to ebay that this isn't your fault as the seller that the item may be returned to sender because of the buyer's irresponsibility.

While you still may lose the dispute, you should get it notated on your account that this wasn't your fault.

It's a crapshoot how ebay will find in this case.
 
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I sold something to someone on Mercari and her address doesn't include her last name, just her initial. Is this a problem? I googled her and I think I found her last name and it appears that it is a single family house and probably only 3 people live in that house, one of which shares her last name.
 
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