My mom sold a NWT Kate Spade phone case recently and sold it for $18 + $3 shipping. The seller requested a return, claiming the item was not as described because the packaging had a small tear (it came that way). My mom, who’s 73 btw, accepted the return and refunded immediately, before the buyer sent it back. She (my mom) also sent an additional $4 via PP for return shipping costs. Buyer was supposed to print the label by Sep. 21 and then return it, but since my mom refunded so quickly, the buyer didn’t get the return label generated through eBay. Apparently, it is not accessible anymore.
Today, my mom called eBay and they told her to contact the buyer. She did this today via eBay message system, and the buyer responded that she never got a return label. The buyer does not want to go to the post office to mail the phone case back; she wants a mailing label provided. My mom is thinking of just letting her keep it, but I don’t think my mom should eat the cost. She’s really trying to accommodate the buyer and situation, and the buyer isn’t going out of her way to help. Yes, she made a mistake by refunding too quickly, but she can’t undo that now. I’m not sure what to recommend to my mom at this point... Any suggestions on how to handle this?