Hi Ladies,
this will be my last post on this particular topic since I'm not directly affected but I just wanted to clarify:
I received a few emails today from PF friends asking me more about censorship and I just want to re-phrase my post earlier today. Jackie to my knowledge hasn't ever asked anyone to go back and erase their post. She's just contacted them directly after reading here and expressed her disappointment that it was shared to other's on the PF. She explained she doesn't respond to demands in this manner or actually will act just the contrary when one does that.
It's my PF friends that felt uncomfortable in that type of reply and decided to either make future posts sound much softer in order to keep BE's support or just remain quiet overall going forward. I can understand taking that approach after reading that type of email especially in the midst of a handbag issue.
Must run.... It's time to celebrate!
Have a great holiday all.
In my opinion, this is all hearsay -- all of it. We don't know what, if anything, about the above post, is true. I am expressing my opinion.
I have taken a brief break and logged on.
Let me make something clear. I am expressing fact not hearsay in
this post. I can't post the exact correspondance but it was between BE and myself so this is not second hand. Perhaps this is inadmissible in court but according to TPF rules this is the best I can do.
I was first told the resolution hinged on my not posting on TPF because I would cause trouble, then I received an immediate email back-pedaling the wording and the reason for the proposed solution and condition it hinged on written in the first one.
This is the order of my correspondance after I emailed BE about this purse. I submitted photos as requested and listed what was wrong with the purse.
First I received an email and was told there was nothing wrong with it. Then I received another stating that BE was aware of my posts on other forums (which in all due honesty, I and others had done in support of a friend who posted there before there was a QC/CS thread here). That therefore I could/would cause trouble if I posted on TPF, and was offered something I would not have been comfortable with on the condition that I not post about it and never buy from BE again.
Finally I was told that lest I misinterpret the above message, that I was not being strongarmed into not posting, but rather being offered this solution because I am a special customer, not because I was being warned not to mention the issues about the bag.
I am not going to be analyzing or expressing my opinions about any of these emails or the wording. That would be opinion. I posted the factual paraphrasing of the emails since I did not accept the conditions offered, which I rejected in order that I can be free to post the truth about what happened.
This is not heresay. This is paraphrasing, which is legally permitted as long as I give attribution..it is not plagiarism either..I will cite where I got the wording from; directly from BE's emails to me.
It is not in any way the exact wording of the emails which are not allowed to be posted here on TPF. Had I been permitted to post them, there would be no debate or discussion. They would speak for themselves. So that is why I brought the matter to the forum. I did not want to remain quiet about how I was treated as a customer, nor about what I was offered or the terms and conditions it hinged on. I wanted it out in public.
One more thing. As far as repeated purchases, despite QC issues, in my case, most of my BE bags are second hand.They are one style and one style only. The same style I purchased this time from BE because I believed that perhaps the first occurence was an abberation. The rehomer usually is kind enough to supply detailed photos, details of condition and descriptions. No hassle, no CS issues, no international drama should I need to return it. If there is a problem, with THESE purchases, which I never have had, I can deal directly with the person.
I am not generalizing my experience to all BE bags. Nor do I want to rehash the first QC issue I had.I am stating that in THIS case, there were definite quality issues. Will I ever buy a BE bag again? Perhaps from a friend I trust. I have been informed that I am not permitted to buy directly from BE anymore; which I find ironic; why would I do so after this?
I would like you all to know that I am in the process of hopefully working out a solution that I am comfortable with, namely returning the bag. The method and manner in which that is done is still not clear enough and so I need more details.
In all fairness to BE, once the solution is reached, I will post the facts and no more, and not merely walk away. But once that is done, and this matter is over and done with, I will once again walk away from this subforum and never look back. And as tempted as I might be to offer support if and when other women post about their CS issues should any more occur, I will not be doing so in print and in posts, but will do so in spirit.
Have a Happy Thanksgiving to all my American friends. Back to my real life. After all, it's just a bag, right?