My jeweller did say they are soft but I cant stop admiring the deep, stunning colorI have a beautiful emerald and diamond ring...the prettiest, clearest emerald I have ever seen, but emeralds are so soft so I'm afraid to wear it much.


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My jeweller did say they are soft but I cant stop admiring the deep, stunning colorI have a beautiful emerald and diamond ring...the prettiest, clearest emerald I have ever seen, but emeralds are so soft so I'm afraid to wear it much.
agreed. i particularly love rubys(who can be more expensive then a D color diamond btw) and emeralds. but i also have a fantastic ring with an emerald cut rutilated quartz in a diamond setting that i love or huge rock crsytal bracelets etc.
to answer the original question . i think the diamond beeing marketed as the best, the most rare the most precious etc had a huge influence in today popularity as most people want a piece of that cake. but this beeing said i still love diamonds the most (fancy ones especially) due to their optical properties that fire just captivates me
I love colored stones. I have a diamond engagement/wedding ring and I use my colored stone rings on my right hand and I LOVE them
I have citrine, saphire, blue topaz, pink tourmaline, amethyst, onyx, smokey topaz and my all time favorite is african garnet. I had one set in my original engagement setting.
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It is african garnet. I love it. It looks more like a ruby than a garnet because it does not have all of the orange undertones and that is what made me love itYour ring is gorgeous! That is a beautiful, beautiful ruby....just the right color!![]()
Chaz mentioned the hardness being a factor in the non-diamond gems, but really, the setting makes a difference on the likelihood of any abrasion over the life of the stone. Sapphires and rubies are extremely hard (even with the exponential factor considered), which is why they are used for sandpaper!
The non-diamond gems are really popular again, diamonds really weren't as big of a deal until DeBeers' campaign mid-century.
Mmm,that true,sapphire and rubies are indeed very hard but in comparison to diamond,corundum is 140 times less hard,and are more susceptible to wear,but the wear only occurs over a very long period of time.The ones I saw when I was in the trade were about 50 or so years old,and set fairly normally in claw set clusters or with a small diamond either side.The guy I worked for did arrange for customers to have them re-polished and it was always successful with only a tiny,tiny amout of weight loss to restore it to its former beauty. As for other gems I have a few bits and bobs,garnet and peridot earrings,star diopside earrings and ring set,citrine,amythyst peices,sadly I don't wear them any more since I have had my diamonds,but I'll keep them for my little Sophie for when she grows up and them someone else can love them all over again!!
ooo,just re-read my post and it sounds a bit preachy!! Sorry was'nt intentional!!XXXXXX
ITA!E-rings do not need to have diamonds on it to mean that you are engaged! As long as there is something on that finger, I think that says it all
Preach on, sister, you've got a lot of great info!! :okay:
I agree, there would be some abrasion long term, but I think jewelers have gotten better at creating settings that better protect the stone, considering the hardness, but I just didn't want the impression that a ruby or sapphire isn't wearable as a ring. I do agree, though, that getting down to hardnesses like emeralds, topaz, amethyst, etc. is rather risky as a ring and more care should be taken when wearing (works as a occasional ring).
E-rings do not need to have diamonds on it to mean that you are engaged! As long as there is something on that finger, I think that says it all! I'd love to see your ring!