Here are some pictures. It's my first time posting pictures so hopefully I did it right!
The bag doesn't hang low as a cross body, but it's good enough for me and still allows me to be hands free. The SA also showed me an adjustable strap I could buy (I think it was $250), so down the line if I find I hate the strap, I'll just buy an extra one. I'm not sure if the strap was the same length on the mm and bb because I didn't pay close attention when i tried them on since I thought the bb was too small for my needs.
I got the beige color. I debated long and hard about getting black because it seems more practical as a mom bag because there's no vachetta to keep clean, but I really like the look of the beige. I'm using the patina champ method though, so I'm hoping this protects the straps.
I considered the neverfull but the design is such that things would get lost in there and there's no zipper.
Good luck with your decision!