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Snobbery (especially the outspoken kind) is a sign of weakness. Snobs are, in actuality, less confident and seek self-affirmation and self-worth from external sources (aka other people). And the standard by which they judge others is usually calibrated so that the verdict is in their favor. There is no consistent logic to these standards, and there is zero objectivity. (this is why snobbery can be found everywhere, anyone whether poor or rich can be a snob)
For example, Jane Doe is carrying an Alexander Wang purse. She looks down on Passerby#1 with a Coach because it is a lesser brand ("ick"). A couple seconds later, Jane Doe sees Passerby#2 carrying a LE LV canvas bag that costs 3 times more, but dismisses her as someone with poor taste because the LV is ugly, not even leather, and therefore a waste of money ("who in the right mind would pay THAT much for that thing").
Snobs find ways to elevate themselves and feel superior by belittling others. The question is, why do they even need to compare themselves against others to begin with? People who are truly self-confident and secure with who they are do not exhibit snobbery because they have no need to evaluate themselves against others.
Like-minded snobs also feed off of each other because they serve as sources of affirmation to one another.
So, try to be a little sympathetic toward the vocal snobs you see around here (or anywhere), they are just unconsciously trying to feel better about themselves.
Snobbery (especially the outspoken kind) is a sign of weakness. Snobs are, in actuality, less confident and seek self-affirmation and self-worth from external sources (aka other people). And the standard by which they judge others is usually calibrated so that the verdict is in their favor. There is no consistent logic to these standards, and there is zero objectivity. (this is why snobbery can be found everywhere, anyone whether poor or rich can be a snob)
For example, Jane Doe is carrying an Alexander Wang purse. She looks down on Passerby#1 with a Coach because it is a lesser brand ("ick"). A couple seconds later, Jane Doe sees Passerby#2 carrying a LE LV canvas bag that costs 3 times more, but dismisses her as someone with poor taste because the LV is ugly, not even leather, and therefore a waste of money ("who in the right mind would pay THAT much for that thing").
Snobs find ways to elevate themselves and feel superior by belittling others. The question is, why do they even need to compare themselves against others to begin with? People who are truly self-confident and secure with who they are do not exhibit snobbery because they have no need to evaluate themselves against others.
Like-minded snobs also feed off of each other because they serve as sources of affirmation to one another.
So, try to be a little sympathetic toward the vocal snobs you see around here (or anywhere), they are just unconsciously trying to feel better about themselves.
Snobbery (especially the outspoken kind) is a sign of weakness. Snobs are, in actuality, less confident and seek self-affirmation and self-worth from external sources (aka other people). And the standard by which they judge others is usually calibrated so that the verdict is in their favor. There is no consistent logic to these standards, and there is zero objectivity. (this is why snobbery can be found everywhere, anyone whether poor or rich can be a snob)
For example, Jane Doe is carrying an Alexander Wang purse. She looks down on Passerby#1 with a Coach because it is a lesser brand ("ick"). A couple seconds later, Jane Doe sees Passerby#2 carrying a LE LV canvas bag that costs 3 times more, but dismisses her as someone with poor taste because the LV is ugly, not even leather, and therefore a waste of money ("who in the right mind would pay THAT much for that thing").
Snobs find ways to elevate themselves and feel superior by belittling others. The question is, why do they even need to compare themselves against others to begin with? People who are truly self-confident and secure with who they are do not exhibit snobbery because they have no need to evaluate themselves against others.
Like-minded snobs also feed off of each other because they serve as sources of affirmation to one another.
So, try to be a little sympathetic toward the vocal snobs you see around here (or anywhere), they are just unconsciously trying to feel better about themselves.
Say what you will about my (clearly dissenting) opinion regarding LV. This whole post explains perfectly why I have such distaste for brands that are KNOWN not to take care of their customers and just blame them for any sort of damage to the product. Not only do I find the look personally unappealing but the multitude of posts I've read detailing you ladies' own struggles trying to get repairs/replacements/refunds from the company have made me completely uninterested in the brand.
I love my LV.