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Sounds BEAUTIFUL. Post photos SOON.
Can you email the specialists at Blue Nile now? When I bought, I didn't know that, I just called them on the phone. And I always found them to be great, friendly,informative and accomodating. I was so confused all the time by all the people on Pricescope insisting that Blue Nile 'dropshipped' and that they couldn't tell you what your diamonds would look lke since they weren't there--in my experience THIS IS NOT TRUE.
Whiteflash is definitely more expensive, but as I said, I liked them too.
I think you would get a great pendant from Blue nile. When I got my pendant, I was done with buying luxury and went to the local pawn shop, picked out a ring with a pretty diamond (heartshaped) and went and had it reset in a pendant, the whole thing cost $350 to do, including the price of the diamond and it is .75 ct, white, sparkly and eyeclean. And I still have the ring of solid 14k gold to put another stone in whenever I want to. I was thinking of a spessartite, but have been lazy about buying it.

I think photos of my pendant are in the pawn shop finds thread.


I would've called but I am not a phone person. If I did call it probably would have been better bc I kepted refreshing my email page to see if someone had responded to me.

Jill I had tons of fun building my studs but it was also a headache. Everytime I would change my mind the price would increase slowly and by the time I had chose everything it would have been more than what I initially wanted to pay. For example I would be like, ok if I choose F instead of G the price would change almost $100-200 and then maybe I should just get 1ctw instead of 0.94ctw which also brought it up to $200, then Plat instead of white gold..... But my husband would tell me they are just studs why pay $200 more for something no one will tell? But I am happy with what I chose.


BTW, I did not know that they could verify if the dia was eye clean until I emailed them today about the pendant.
 
Please let's not worry about this comment anymore, apologies are not needed.


I probably need to apologize for always harping on Pricescope. I feel frustrated though because I do like to recommend them to people as a good educational resource and don't wnat to be ungrateful that I learned so much there. However, while recommending, I do feel people need to be warned a little bit. People come there insecure and wanting information from experts and to me it is wrong to use that to promote just a little inner coterie of vendors the way they do. Especially because they are costing people $$$$.

They will say anything over there to make sure people buy from their beloved. ;)

*I* am the one who made the "offensive" comment about oversized studs, and while that was not my intention, I apologize if it really did offend someone.

I think we need some photos of these new Blue Nile Studs.
 
The earrings are beautiful.
I like the way Blue Nile lets you play around and see what it costs to change your specs. I think you made good choices. I did a lot of the same things with my pair as you did. I went 1.81 ctw instead of the full two carats which SOUNDS better but was a very tiny increase in size for a whole lot more bucks. I wanted platinum also but went with white gold. Adn I went lower in color than you--I went to H. Which has been just fine (no one can look into the sides and see color on your ear. Besides with the ideal cut, you really don't see color on these unless you put them right next to my F colored ring.) I did go to VS clarity though as I kept thinking that these would be the largest diamonds I owned and I wanted them to be clean enough for a ring--I'll probably leave them to my sons one day and they might want to make a ring with them rather than earrings.

I didn't do all this in the case of the earrings though with those Blue Nile slider things, since I was at Whiteflash. I kept talking to consultants there, who were great and babied me through the whole process in a nice way. In my case, I had a set budget (I won't say what it was). They started out telling me the biggest I could go there with the amount of money I had. I don't remember exactly but I could have got 2.50 ctw or something like that. But I couldn't see myself wearing that size and they would have been J color and SI2 which I didn't want to do.
I went to a brick and mortar and tried on earrings so that I could talk to them more intelligently, I remember. And I was glad I did. I had been going to get martinis, and I realized I didn't want that (they actually had already made the earrings and kindly changed the setting to the four prong basket I wanted). I could also see that the Hearts on Fire, which were the only ideal cut in the B & M, looked a lot better than the other earrings, so I was glad I was getting the ideal cut. I saw that actually, in earrings, J color was white looking in white gold or platinum,so I knew the H color would be great and I could tell from that which carat size looked good on me personally and what was over the top (for me personally).

I felt kind of bad to have put the sales reps to so much work, when I didn't intend to buy (but actually while I was there I saw a beautiful antique ring which I did later buy, not that I had to but I fell in love with it. I overpaid for it like crazy actually, because it looked just like my grandmother's engagement ring).

I also saw a pair of earrings there, I've never forgotten it--6 carat total weight!!! Very interesting to look at. But since 2.50 ctw was over the top for my ears, not for me. I wonder though if anyone has ever gone ahead and bought those. There are certainly people they would look good on (but they would need those special non-droop backs, definitely). They weren't ideal cut though so you got size but not the super duper sparkle that I have in any light situation whatsoever. The only time mine do not sparkle is when it is pitch black--people are always remarking on this.

I would've called but I am not a phone person. If I did call it probably would have been better bc I kepted refreshing my email page to see if someone had responded to me.

Jill I had tons of fun building my studs but it was also a headache. Everytime I would change my mind the price would increase slowly and by the time I had chose everything it would have been more than what I initially wanted to pay. For example I would be like, ok if I choose F instead of G the price would change almost $100-200 and then maybe I should just get 1ctw instead of 0.94ctw which also brought it up to $200, then Plat instead of white gold..... But my husband would tell me they are just studs why pay $200 more for something no one will tell? But I am happy with what I chose.


BTW, I did not know that they could verify if the dia was eye clean until I emailed them today about the pendant.
 
Jill I had tons of fun building my studs but it was also a headache. Everytime I would change my mind the price would increase slowly and by the time I had chose everything it would have been more than what I initially wanted to pay. For example I would be like, ok if I choose F instead of G the price would change almost $100-200 and then maybe I should just get 1ctw instead of 0.94ctw which also brought it up to $200, then Plat instead of white gold..... But my husband would tell me they are just studs why pay $200 more for something no one will tell? But I am happy with what I chose.


BTW, I did not know that they could verify if the dia was eye clean until I emailed them today about the pendant.

Your earring look just great! Do you love them?
May I ask what specific questions you had asked?

I know what you mean about the headache...I keep playing around as well, and it all keeps changing. It becomes difficult to decide if $100-200 makes a big difference, but like your hiusband I try to remind myself they are earrings that no one will be so close to. I am becoming unsure where to "skimp"? Not on cut, but then where if I can't have it all....color: H or I? clarity: S11? S12?

The earrings are beautiful.
I like the way Blue Nile lets you play around and see what it costs to change your specs. I think you made good choices. I did a lot of the same things with my pair as you did. I went 1.81 ctw instead of the full two carats which SOUNDS better but was a very tiny increase in size for a whole lot more bucks. I wanted platinum also but went with white gold. Adn I went lower in color than you--I went to H. Which has been just fine (no one can look into the sides and see color on your ear. Besides with the ideal cut, you really don't see color on these unless you put them right next to my F colored ring.) I did go to VS clarity though as I kept thinking that these would be the largest diamonds I owned and I wanted them to be clean enough for a ring--I'll probably leave them to my sons one day and they might want to make a ring with them rather than earrings.

I went to a brick and mortar and tried on earrings so that I could talk to them more intelligently, I remember. And I was glad I did. I had been going to get martinis, and I realized I didn't want that (they actually had already made the earrings and kindly changed the setting to the four prong basket I wanted). I could also see that the Hearts on Fire, which were the only ideal cut in the B & M, looked a lot better than the other earrings, so I was glad I was getting the ideal cut. I saw that actually, in earrings, J color was white looking in white gold or platinum,so I knew the H color would be great and I could tell from that which carat size looked good on me personally and what was over the top (for me personally).

On another thread there were alot of fans here for the 3 prong martini, but I am planning to hit a retail store over the weekend to try them on before I place an online order anywhere. What did you not like about them? The rep at wf said they would look rounder as opposed to the 4 prong which would appear more square. Perhaps she preferred for me as I currently have princess cut.
What made you decide to get the four prong? TIA!
 
Jill, I didn't ask for hints and tips about the studs until I knew exactly what I wanted and had a narrowing it down. When my husband purchase my ering solitaire he chose a princess cut in D/VVS1. I did research online for studs as I wanted D in color as well but pple were stating not to overpay for studs. Find a pair with excellent cut, stay within G-I in color and clarity SI2 would be fine. I've seen stud earrings at Sam's club that were 1ctw $2,000 I in color I2 in clarity. It didn't state the cut but it was sparkly. So I went on blue nile and compared prices for the preset studs which is $1,875 I in color SI2 in clarity and GOOD cut only and .96ctw. So I set a budget, $2000 to see if I can get something better. It came down to 5 pairs $1,488-$2,198 before the setting. I sent the diamond comparison and received advice stating the diamonds would look identical side by side. That if I was on a budget to stick with the $1,488 pair. All the diamonds I chose for comparison was G/SI1-2 the only thing difference was the details.....depth, table, polish, symmetry. I am no diamond expert but on blue nile I read to stay within 60.1-61.9 depth, 55.0-57.0 table. The consultant even stated that I could go with VERY GOOD cut but the price difference wasn't much so I stayed with IDEAL.

To answer your question: Yes I do love my earrings. Wish I could have gone up to 1.25 ctw but that would have been another $1000-$1500.
 
Jill, I didn't ask for hints and tips about the studs until I knew exactly what I wanted and had a narrowing it down. When my husband purchase my ering solitaire he chose a princess cut in D/VVS1. I did research online for studs as I wanted D in color as well but pple were stating not to overpay for studs. Find a pair with excellent cut, stay within G-I in color and clarity SI2 would be fine. I've seen stud earrings at Sam's club that were 1ctw $2,000 I in color I2 in clarity. It didn't state the cut but it was sparkly. So I went on blue nile and compared prices for the preset studs which is $1,875 I in color SI2 in clarity and GOOD cut only and .96ctw. So I set a budget, $2000 to see if I can get something better. It came down to 5 pairs $1,488-$2,198 before the setting. I sent the diamond comparison and received advice stating the diamonds would look identical side by side. That if I was on a budget to stick with the $1,488 pair. All the diamonds I chose for comparison was G/SI1-2 the only thing difference was the details.....depth, table, polish, symmetry. I am no diamond expert but on blue nile I read to stay within 60.1-61.9 depth, 55.0-57.0 table. The consultant even stated that I could go with VERY GOOD cut but the price difference wasn't much so I stayed with IDEAL.

To answer your question: Yes I do love my earrings. Wish I could have gone up to 1.25 ctw but that would have been another $1000-$1500.

Thank you so much for the details- they are really helpful!
Your earrings look great and happy to hear you love them.
The post did look fairly long, but it doesn't seem to bother you at all.

I am going to try to check out a few pairs today for size and design, and then compare bn and wf stones to narrow down the search.
 
Sorry to take so long to answer re:martinis. They didn't look good on me. I thought they were very pretty and I like the less metal, but my ears kind of take a scoop at the lobe (I can't explain this well) and even at the larger size I was getting, they sank into the depression there and kind of disappeared. The four prong basket is higher up and and can be seen well on me.

I don't think there would be a problem if your ears didn't do this.

THe main point is,I would not have known this w/o trying on in person and I was ready to go with the martinis because I read online that so many people had them and loved them but they still were not right for me.
 
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