I recently went through a really nasty experience with a co-worker. She would ooh and ah over my designer bags and tell me all these hard-luck stories until I felt sorry for her, then try to chisel me with statements like, "Oh, you've got so MANY bags, you wouldn't miss JUST ONE if you gave it to me." or "I don't understand how your life can be so good while mine can be so bad." Of course, now that I'm not such a SUCKER anymore, she said she "hated to be crass" but being "friends" with me made her "uncomfortable" so now she's not speaking to me. I'm SOOOOOOOOO distraught, boo hoo! With "friends" like this, I don't need assassins! Good riddance, beeee-yaaatch!!!!!