english_girl_900 said:Yikes - this has gotten very serious.
Well, I'll come clean - I'm 21 and still a virgin. I am in no way waiting for marriage - my reasons are far more selfish. I just haven't been ready, in fact I'm still not really. I think sex is something that should happen in a relationship where there is mutual love, trust and respect. I have major trust issues (and I'm an OCD germaphobe which doesn't help) so its just not right for me at this time.
But the whole 'would you buy a car without test-driving it first?' is practically my motto. People have to do what's right for them.
I think that's great I had been with my ex for 2 years before we had sex, and it was important to me that it was a "real" relationship.
Stick with your beliefs, and be PROUD of them