2019 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

[Cookiefiend]

I like how the tag is colored the same as your bag! That’s genius! May I borrow your idea? I use the tag, too, but they’re all white and it’s kinda boring and hard to find stuff sometimes. This is genius!

Oh my gosh!
I’m so flattered- of course you can, please do! The tags are just paint samples I picked up at the local hardware store, I used a hole punch, slipped a thin ribbon through, and pinned them to the dust bag. Easy-peasy! [emoji173]️

 

[Sparkletastic]

I’m curvy and athletic (big thighs) with a small waist. Not right now, of course. I’m into higher waisted stretchy jeans usually. I hate low waisted pants.

Good to know. Thanks, I’ll check out the brands you mentioned! And, I hate low riding / low waisted jeans too Ugh.

My closet is finally back together - it took forever. @HopelessBagGirl asked how we keep/store our bags and after spending the day putting things away,
I took a picture.
This is how it looks when they’re not in the bags:
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And how it looks when they’re in the bags - I keep them in the bags when they’re in the closet because of sun, dust and my dog.
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I switched most of them to all the same color bag because the different colors bothered me... says the girl who wears mostly black, blue, and white.

They look so happy! I would have never thought of color coded tags. Smart!

I agree. I had a woman ask me tons of questions yesterday, ask for more pictures without specifying what she needed, then followup asking me what my lowest price was. I told her and then just got silence. I don't think these people even know they are rude. They weren't ever taught basic courtesy.

I also think the rise in social media has contributed. People are more rude, coarse, inconsiderate than before because they can get away with it. I’m always floored by the comments on FB. People will post evil things about someone for something as simple as them posting a recipe they don’t like.

If people said and did half the things they do in person instead of online, at minimum they’d get shunned and maximum they’d get shot.

 

[catsinthebag]

Oh my gosh!
I’m so flattered- of course you can, please do! The tags are just paint samples I picked up at the local hardware store, I used a hole punch, slipped a thin ribbon through, and pinned them to the dust bag. Easy-peasy! [emoji173]️

Paint samples! That’s genius!

 

[Sparkletastic]

Dye matters, as does the way denim is stacked before it’s cut. Many (too many to count!) years ago, I had a summer job in a store that sold a lot of jeans — brands like Lee and Levi. The manager told me the reason two pairs of jeans in the same size will fit differently is that denim is stacked and then machine cuts straight down through the stack. The result is that jeans from the denim at the top of the stack will be a little smaller than the denim at the bottom. I don’t know if it’s true but it makes sense for mass-produced clothing.

Wow. Who knew? Thanks for sharing. So I’m not crazy when the same size of something fits differently in different colors.

Thank you!
That pink lining was what caught my eye - I was so glad DH agreed that I *needed* it [emoji38]

Pink is always needed

I don’t think you’re hourglass then. Perhaps maybe heavy in the front and back so the number makes you look like an hourglass. But by expansion, you’re not. Coz I’m a seriously pear shape and I can’t even wear a straight legs.

I had to read your comment a few times to get it. Lol! But, I understand now. Yes, you may be sorta right. My boobs stick out but, I have a ridiculously teeny back (I’m a 30FF bra). And, I have more rumpus than usual for my size. So my body “sticks out” front and back. LOL!
But, I also have hips and thighs which gives my bottom width and my waist is very small which means I go in quite a bit visually from the front in the middle.

So, if you saw me you would definitely say I’m a slim, slightly bottom heavy, hourglass. But, skinny jeans definitely look best on me.

Maybe it’s because I don’t wear extreme skinny jeans. The ones I own are more like a hybrid between skinny and straight. And, I don’t wear them super tight. I can get in them like any other pants without doing the “blue jean karate kicks” or lying prone on the floor wiggles and squiggles some people have to do to get in their super tight jeans.

Or maybe it’s because the fashion pundits have given us “rules” that aren’t hard and fast. Whatever it is, I hate trying on jeans and muuuuuuucn prefer wearing a casual dress. They’re so much more comfy.

The person sounds like a real flake. I hope you aren't going to sell to her, even if she changes her mind and wants to give you a reasonable price. I'd worry that she'd end up scamming you in some way... either not paying, sending the bag back, or claiming that it was lost in the mail.

Your new policy sounds very sensible.

"Something can't be 50% authentic"... SMH!!!

I agree completely. Too many red flags.

 

[pdxhb]

I’m selling a bag. I always use the maximum number of pictures and closely photograph / fully describe any signs of wear.

A potential buyer contacted me with questions. I quickly responded. Then she wanted me to put the words “100% authentic” in the listing. I told her I didn’t use those words because it’s illegal to even list a fake bag and something can’t be 50% authentic. But, I edited the listing and put the words in anyway.

Then she wanted even more photos in different lightings. I sent them to her. Now she wants to lowball me with an offer that is 35% off my listing and wants me to give free shipping on top

Here is my new policy. Since I clearly and accurately photograph and describe my bags, I will answer one email of questions. After that, I won’t do anything else including sending any photos until I share my bottom line / non negotiable price and the buyer agree in principal to that.

People are really inconsiderate. I would never handle things this way. I always make sure to put all my questions and requests into ONE email. And I don’t bother the person at al if I know I’m not willing to pay at least a price pretty close to their asking price.

I agree. I had a woman ask me tons of questions yesterday, ask for more pictures without specifying what she needed, then followup asking me what my lowest price was. I told her and then just got silence. I don't think these people even know they are rude. They weren't ever taught basic courtesy.

So many red flags. It's amazing what people will do, isn't it?
I always respond to questions but since I price my bags quite low, I don't intend to give on my BIN or toss in free shipping. The most recent occurrence was a flipper trying to get me to lower my already low price Rogue 36 that was new with tags instead of bidding. They kept messaging me with "offers" but wouldn't use the proper route to make a formal offer (on the bay), so I just kept responding nicely but with a firm no. Eventually a person who actually wanted the bag to wear won it, which felt like a victory.

 

[More bags]

My closet is finally back together - it took forever. @HopelessBagGirl asked how we keep/store our bags and after spending the day putting things away,
I took a picture.
This is how it looks when they’re not in the bags:
View attachment 4306563
And how it looks when they’re in the bags - I keep them in the bags when they’re in the closet because of sun, dust and my dog.
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I switched most of them to all the same color bag because the different colors bothered me... says the girl who wears mostly black, blue, and white. [emoji38]

Beautiful storage solution - I love your coloured tags!

 

[pdxhb]

My closet is finally back together - it took forever. @HopelessBagGirl asked how we keep/store our bags and after spending the day putting things away,
I took a picture.
This is how it looks when they’re not in the bags:
View attachment 4306563
And how it looks when they’re in the bags - I keep them in the bags when they’re in the closet because of sun, dust and my dog.
View attachment 4306564
I switched most of them to all the same color bag because the different colors bothered me... says the girl who wears mostly black, blue, and white. [emoji38]

What a gorgeous organization!!!

 

[essiedub]

Essiedub, I’m 5’6 and size 4-6, slim, but NOT skinny. I’ve got some curves and muscles and don’t want skin-tight jeans. The best ones I’ve found so far are AG’s Prima Cigarette leg jeans. They’re a little tapered but are pretty much the straight tube you’re talking about. They have some stretch so are very comfy.

Thank you! I will add that to the list to try. And seriously size 4-6 is skinny!

 

[ksuromax]

@Sparkletastic and @whateve i am sorry for you and all this hassle you faced!
that's why i don't want to list and deal with the selling platforms myself, but consign...
i might lose a bit on the price, but i definitely save myself from a lot of headache!
Wishing you well, and to all who braves dealing with direct sales!! May all the nice Buyers be with you!

 

[ksuromax]

bag №7 - Balenciaga Air hobo

 

[whateve]

Wow. Who knew? Thanks for sharing. So I’m not crazy when the same size of something fits differently in different colors.
Pink is always needed
I had to read your comment a few times to get it. Lol! But, I understand now. Yes, you may be sorta right. My boobs stick out but, I have a ridiculously teeny back (I’m a 30FF bra). And, I have more rumpus than usual for my size. So my body “sticks out” front and back. LOL!
But, I also have hips and thighs which gives my bottom width and my waist is very small which means I go in quite a bit visually from the front in the middle.

So, if you saw me you would definitely say I’m a slim, slightly bottom heavy, hourglass. But, skinny jeans definitely look best on me.

Maybe it’s because I don’t wear extreme skinny jeans. The ones I own are more like a hybrid between skinny and straight. And, I don’t wear them super tight. I can get in them like any other pants without doing the “blue jean karate kicks” or lying prone on the floor wiggles and squiggles some people have to do to get in their super tight jeans.

Or maybe it’s because the fashion pundits have given us “rules” that aren’t hard and fast. Whatever it is, I hate trying on jeans and muuuuuuucn prefer wearing a casual dress. They’re so much more comfy.
I agree completely. Too many red flags.

Wow, I thought I had it tough with a 32DDD! Where do you buy your bras?

I have hips but I missed out in the derriere department. I didn't even know I was small back there until it became popular to have a big butt!

I don't wear any jeans that I have to wriggle or jump to get into. Mine are as easy to put on as sweats and just as comfortable.

 

[whateve]

@Sparkletastic and @whateve i am sorry for you and all this hassle you faced!
that's why i don't want to list and deal with the selling platforms myself, but consign...
i might lose a bit on the price, but i definitely save myself from a lot of headache!
Wishing you well, and to all who braves dealing with direct sales!! May all the nice Buyers be with you!

Thank you! I'm a bit worried now because things have gone smoothly for quite awhile. I'm expecting an unhappy buyer anyday now. I sure hope it is on something cheap so I can just give a refund to get rid of the problem.

 

[eggtartapproved]

@catsinthebag way to go on the sale!!
@ksuromax that Bal triangle is so cute!!!

How am I 100 pages behind in this thread? Are we moving even faster than last year! Best to stop at page 90 so I remember where I left off haha. Sounds like everyone is doing really well!

I’m attempting a dry January - no unnecessary purchases. Not just in bags and SLGs, but all areas of life. We moved near the end of last year so I’m taking the opportunity to declutter and make a shift towards minimal living that I’ve been aiming for, for several years. I never intended it to be a cold turkey shift so I’m happy as long as I’m progressing each year. Previous years where I used stylebook as a tracker, I’m now using it to actually plan daily outfits and so far its made it a lot easier for me to get rid of clothes that No longer feel good on me. If I haven’t worn an item recently, I make two outfits in case the first doesn’t work and then l don’t have to think hard about what to wear, and what didn’t work immediately goes to a donation pile.

 

[Miss_Dawn]

Bag # 5 in 10/31 challenge

I’m carrying my Chanel Coco Handle in a gunmetal / pewter shade. She’s called ‘Sweetie’. Love

 

[msd_bags]

My closet is finally back together - it took forever. @HopelessBagGirl asked how we keep/store our bags and after spending the day putting things away,
I took a picture.
This is how it looks when they’re not in the bags:
View attachment 4306563
And how it looks when they’re in the bags - I keep them in the bags when they’re in the closet because of sun, dust and my dog.
View attachment 4306564
I switched most of them to all the same color bag because the different colors bothered me... says the girl who wears mostly black, blue, and white. [emoji38]

How I wish my bag cabinet is as organized as yours!