2019 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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@catsinthebag way to go on the sale!!
@ksuromax that Bal triangle is so cute!!!

How am I 100 pages behind in this thread? Are we moving even faster than last year! Best to stop at page 90 so I remember where I left off haha. Sounds like everyone is doing really well!

I’m attempting a dry January - no unnecessary purchases. Not just in bags and SLGs, but all areas of life. We moved near the end of last year so I’m taking the opportunity to declutter and make a shift towards minimal living that I’ve been aiming for, for several years. I never intended it to be a cold turkey shift so I’m happy as long as I’m progressing each year. Previous years where I used stylebook as a tracker, I’m now using it to actually plan daily outfits and so far its made it a lot easier for me to get rid of clothes that No longer feel good on me. If I haven’t worn an item recently, I make two outfits in case the first doesn’t work and then l don’t have to think hard about what to wear, and what didn’t work immediately goes to a donation pile.
Congratulations on all of your progress! I like your outfit planning tips.
 
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It’s been a few months since I last used this bag, glad to have longed to wear it today! Massaccesi Muse in Light Grey Pompei leather.
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You look gorgeous- chic and polished. Those shoes are a fantastic pop of colour!
 
@Sparkletastic and @whateve i am sorry for you and all this hassle you faced! :hugs:
that's why i don't want to list and deal with the selling platforms myself, but consign...
i might lose a bit on the price, but i definitely save myself from a lot of headache!
Wishing you well, and to all who braves dealing with direct sales!! May all the nice Buyers be with you! :flowers:
Thanks! Unfortunately, the remaining bags I have either were at a consignor and languished for over a year, not accepted by any consignors or very low cost. Because while I normally always sell myself, I’m so sick of selling, I’d definitely ship these off.
bag №7 - Balenciaga Air hobo
Love the color palette you put together.
Wow, I thought I had it tough with a 32DDD! Where do you buy your bras?

I have hips but I missed out in the derriere department. I didn't even know I was small back there until it became popular to have a big butt!

I don't wear any jeans that I have to wriggle or jump to get into. Mine are as easy to put on as sweats and just as comfortable.
Having a teeny back and breasts is a hassle for bras. My daughter is 28G so she really struggles. Most of our bras are from the brands Panache or Freya. They have bras for in almost any chest / cup size combo (big or small). They actually down to 28 and AAA. You can get the basics they carry at most specialty bra shops. But they also have tons of really pretty bras online. The sizing in a certain type of bra is pretty consistent so if you know you wear size x in one balconette you’ll pretty much wear that size in any balconette from that brand.
@catsinthebag way to go on the sale!!
@ksuromax that Bal triangle is so cute!!!

How am I 100 pages behind in this thread? Are we moving even faster than last year! Best to stop at page 90 so I remember where I left off haha. Sounds like everyone is doing really well!

I’m attempting a dry January - no unnecessary purchases. Not just in bags and SLGs, but all areas of life. We moved near the end of last year so I’m taking the opportunity to declutter and make a shift towards minimal living that I’ve been aiming for, for several years. I never intended it to be a cold turkey shift so I’m happy as long as I’m progressing each year. Previous years where I used stylebook as a tracker, I’m now using it to actually plan daily outfits and so far its made it a lot easier for me to get rid of clothes that No longer feel good on me. If I haven’t worn an item recently, I make two outfits in case the first doesn’t work and then l don’t have to think hard about what to wear, and what didn’t work immediately goes to a donation pile.
Moving is the best time to declarer. It’s a pain to pick and unpack so its motivating to keep less.

I love your idea of planning outfits for items.
 
Bag #6 of 10: Chanel Pearlized Silver Lamb M/L Classic flap w/RHW.

I reeeaaally need to get this bag out more. This is the bag that taught me to be comfortable wearing my best bags all the time. I was scared to wear it for kings and finally it was too pretty as I started wearing it - but very carefully. Over time I realized that it wasn’t “precious” and I could really enjoy all my bags all the time.

So, today she is going with me to the paint store to find a match for an accent wall in my home office. I want it to match the navy in the drapes I just picked out. :biggrin:
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I’m selling a bag. I always use the maximum number of pictures and closely photograph / fully describe any signs of wear.

A potential buyer contacted me with questions. I quickly responded. Then she wanted me to put the words “100% authentic” in the listing. I told her I didn’t use those words because it’s illegal to even list a fake bag and something can’t be 50% authentic. But, I edited the listing and put the words in anyway.

Then she wanted even more photos in different lightings. I sent them to her. Now she wants to lowball me with an offer that is 35% off my listing and wants me to give free shipping on top :mad:

Here is my new policy. Since I clearly and accurately photograph and describe my bags, I will answer one email of questions. After that, I won’t do anything else including sending any photos until I share my bottom line / non negotiable price and the buyer agree in principal to that.

People are really inconsiderate. I would never handle things this way. I always make sure to put all my questions and requests into ONE email. And I don’t bother the person at al if I know I’m not willing to pay at least a price pretty close to their asking price. :cursing:

Sorry, this sounds like a nightmare. I used to love eBay, it’s not the same animal it used to be. Sad because I used to love eBay and really had nothing but positive experiences with it. I wish you very good luck and hopefully nobody hassles you too much.
I do feel fortunate that I live within driving distance to one of the popular online resellers. I offload on them when I get an organizing bug.
 
Bag #6 of 10: Chanel Pearlized Silver Lamb M/L Classic flap w/RHW.

I reeeaaally need to get this bag out more. This is the bag that taught me to be comfortable wearing my best bags all the time. I was scared to wear it for kings and finally it was too pretty as I started wearing it - but very carefully. Over time I realized that it wasn’t “precious” and I could really enjoy all my bags all the time.

So, today she is going with me to the paint store to find a match for an accent wall in my home office. I want it to match the navy in the drapes I just picked out. :biggrin:
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Your bag is gorgeous and makes a stunning match with your drapes! :flowers:
 
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