2018 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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My boredom level from being housebound with this foot has reached new heights. :huh: So, of course I’m looking at handbag stuff. LOL! Bear with me as I do another Sparkle Bag Analysis posts. :lol:

I was curious to see what I paid for my bags so, I ranked them by price...

...and was floored. :whut:

First, I have price amnesia. I don’t recall paying what I did for some bags. This list gives me perspective going forward.

Second, price doesn’t correlate to favorites or most worn. My top 5 favorites are #1, 3, 4,10 and 18 in money spent. My top 5 most worn are #2, 8, 10, 11, 20. (FYI #10 which is a favorite and most worn is my pink Miss Dior)

Third, I’ve fallen more into “what the market requires” I pay than “how much do I crave the bag”. For example, I paid way more for my ivory Chanel than any of my Miss Diors. But, I wear the MD’s to death and love them to distraction while I’ve barely worn the ivory C. So, why so much for it? I should have forced myself to wait and found an ivory / cream bag I loved as much as my MD’s. This makes me want to sell it and find my perfect ivory bag. But, not now! LOL!

In contrast, I paid the least for my Jimmy Choo hobo and it’s one of my most used bags. I don’t adore it but it’s absolutely perfect for its spot in my collection. Honestly, it would have been worth paying full price.

So, this exercise tells me this:

1) Focus funds on what I crave and will use. This isn’t rocket science. LOL! I should be willing to spend the moon on bags that are perfect for me because I see from experience it will be a good spend and, more importantly, I’ll be happy.

2) I shouldn’t be afraid to spend “good” money on the perfect carefree / service bags. Carefree bags that I don’t like won’t get worn - period. Ones I do will be priceless - like the Jimmy Choo. I need to stop starving this category and plunge into what I want. Thinking about this for the nylon bag.

3) (I hate to say it) Keep my collection small-ish and only add what is mind blowing / giggle happy generating. I had “limited” myself to 30 premier & 10 non premier bags. But, my new inventory of 20 bags isn’t a problem because 16 of the 20 I purged were never getting worn. :huh: They were dead weight and needed to go. How was I blind to that???

Even more telling, of my remaining 20 bags, half are getting 70% of the wear. :shocked: I like what I like and need to stick to that. If I’m not urgently craving the bag, I need to walk away.

This was really helpful. Makes me think:
• Do I love the black lamb Chanel enough to pay so much for it relative to my other bags?? Maybe?
• If my unicorn (black ghw Miss Dior) comes available, I should just get the darn thing at any reasonable price.
• Spend what I need to on the nylon bag.
• I’ll never own Hermes. LOL! I don’t crave the bags. So spending even more than I do now per bag on them isn’t a good spend.
I love your posts like this - they are very informative and make me think about my own bags.
I haven't done any hard-core analysis but I do keep a spreadsheet of what I'm wearing.
I have 20 bags total (includes 'specific wear' items like seasonal, travel or formal), of those 20 bags I wear 7 of them on a regular basis. Less than half.
I don't like knowing that… it means I have too many bags I don't use.
I did sell a bag yesterday though - woo hoo! I think I'm going to do some more 'thinning the herd' tomorrow and list a few more or donate them.
 
I love your posts like this - they are very informative and make me think about my own bags.
I haven't done any hard-core analysis but I do keep a spreadsheet of what I'm wearing.
I have 20 bags total (includes 'specific wear' items like seasonal, travel or formal), of those 20 bags I wear 7 of them on a regular basis. Less than half.
I don't like knowing that… it means I have too many bags I don't use.
I did sell a bag yesterday though - woo hoo! I think I'm going to do some more 'thinning the herd' tomorrow and list a few more or donate them.
Congrats on the sale!
 
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@Sparkletastic Were you not interested in Strathberry?

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Yes, yes, YES! :nuts: I love these bags. I want the green one which says “restocking soon” for work. I keep checking each week. As soon as it’s in, I’m pouncing!!!

I’m also tempted by the nano tote but want to get the green one in before I buy anything else from them to make sure I love the bags in person.
I like it when you're bored! I enjoy reading your analyses and I tend to do some of my own too (much needed!).

I'm happy that you're now able to let go of the dead weight! Sometimes we cling to items we know we will (almost) never use. And yes, don't hesitate to spend money on bags that you will use!
Thanks, Msd! Hearing how we all manage our collections helps me too. Makes me more brave when I need to be and more cautious when I need to as well.

I need to stop being so hard on price. I realized do spend good coin on bags. Duh. :doh: :lol: I just need to focus so it’s not wasted but well spent money. I prefer to stay in a certain price range but will be willing to go to my max once every year or two for something spectacular.
I love your posts like this - they are very informative and make me think about my own bags.
I haven't done any hard-core analysis but I do keep a spreadsheet of what I'm wearing.
I have 20 bags total (includes 'specific wear' items like seasonal, travel or formal), of those 20 bags I wear 7 of them on a regular basis. Less than half.
I don't like knowing that… it means I have too many bags I don't use.
I did sell a bag yesterday though - woo hoo! I think I'm going to do some more 'thinning the herd' tomorrow and list a few more or donate them.
Congrats on your sale!!

Like you, I’m just surprised (& frustrated) I kept bags I wasn’t using because I thought I was vigilant about that. But, I made excuses for some bags I loved. Others have low resale value, so I just let them hang around. But, when I’m objective about wear and allow subjectivity on level of love, half the bags needed to go. Wow. :whut:

I’m also gong to be more conscious of size. I used to carry bigger bags. But, they were in fashion then and I carried the kitchen sink including hubby & kid stuff. Now, my kids are adults, I only carry the odd one or two items for Mr. S. (I’ve told him if he wants lots of stuff with him, he needs to carry his own Murse. LOL!) and I’ve significantly downsized what I need. So, now I can balance aesthetics with function and actually look at how the bag looks on me. IMO, big bags look ridiculous - like they’re carrying me. LOL! I have to stop buying them.
 
I’m still bored so I took time to plan for Mr. S’s bday. :huh: I just booked trip but need help on a gift.

I have no clue what to get him. He’s kind of minimal with what he wants (He keeps a tight wardrobe of classic clothes with European styling and then is d-o-n-e! No desire for a lot of watches, jewelry, or frou frou as he calls it. LOL!) and is a buy it when he wants it guy. So there isn’t a wish list I can pull from. This always makes it hard. :hrmm: His interests are chess, travel, music, college basketball, and unusual liquors / craft cocktails. I’m thinking of some antique coupe glasses for the display on his bookshelf in his office?? I dunno. I’m flummoxed. Ideas? Help!
 
I’m still bored so I took time to plan for Mr. S’s bday. :huh: I just booked trip but need help on a gift.

I have no clue what to get him. He’s kind of minimal with what he wants (He keeps a tight wardrobe of classic clothes with European styling and then is d-o-n-e! No desire for a lot of watches, jewelry, or frou frou as he calls it. LOL!) and is a buy it when he wants it guy. So there isn’t a wish list I can pull from. This always makes it hard. :hrmm: His interests are chess, travel, music, college basketball, and unusual liquors / craft cocktails. I’m thinking of some antique coupe glasses for the display on his bookshelf in his office?? I dunno. I’m flummoxed. Ideas? Help!
I am sure he probably has one but how about a hand crafted chess set.
 
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Yes, yes, YES! :nuts: I love these bags. I want the green one which says “restocking soon” for work. I keep checking each week. As soon as it’s in, I’m pouncing!!!

I’m also tempted by the nano tote but want to get the green one in before I buy anything else from them to make sure I love the bags in person.
Thanks, Msd! Hearing how we all manage our collections helps me too. Makes me more brave when I need to be and more cautious when I need to as well.

I need to stop being so hard on price. I realized do spend good coin on bags. Duh. :doh: :lol: I just need to focus so it’s not wasted but well spent money. I prefer to stay in a certain price range but will be willing to go to my max once every year or two for something spectacular.
Congrats on your sale!!

Like you, I’m just surprised (& frustrated) I kept bags I wasn’t using because I thought I was vigilant about that. But, I made excuses for some bags I loved. Others have low resale value, so I just let them hang around. But, when I’m objective about wear and allow subjectivity on level of love, half the bags needed to go. Wow. :whut:

I’m also gong to be more conscious of size. I used to carry bigger bags. But, they were in fashion then and I carried the kitchen sink including hubby & kid stuff. Now, my kids are adults, I only carry the odd one or two items for Mr. S. (I’ve told him if he wants lots of stuff with him, he needs to carry his own Murse. LOL!) and I’ve significantly downsized what I need. So, now I can balance aesthetics with function and actually look at how the bag looks on me. IMO, big bags look ridiculous - like they’re carrying me. LOL! I have to stop buying them.
Ha!! Mr Cookie calls my purses that are too small to also hold his wallet 'Stupid Purses'. :huh:Now, now honey, it's not nice to call names! :biggrin:
 
I’m still bored so I took time to plan for Mr. S’s bday. :huh: I just booked trip but need help on a gift.

I have no clue what to get him. He’s kind of minimal with what he wants (He keeps a tight wardrobe of classic clothes with European styling and then is d-o-n-e! No desire for a lot of watches, jewelry, or frou frou as he calls it. LOL!) and is a buy it when he wants it guy. So there isn’t a wish list I can pull from. This always makes it hard. :hrmm: His interests are chess, travel, music, college basketball, and unusual liquors / craft cocktails. I’m thinking of some antique coupe glasses for the display on his bookshelf in his office?? I dunno. I’m flummoxed. Ideas? Help!
Cuff link?
Year ticket for his favorite basketball team?
Or a sampling set of unusual liquor? I used to see a set of 6 liquor made with different ingredients. Each bottle are very small like for a shot or two.
A whole day at a Spa retreat sigh massage and hot tub? My DH loves it.
 
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Crazy heat and humidity, just dump an ice water down your front and another down your back crazy. Like I literally did that today in this sundress.
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So much more pleasant when I was wet. I was so covered in sunblock from doing the kids and myself that my poor mz wallace Hayley got covered in zinc white smudges! Just ruined looking but I had to sling it and go with all the water bottles.
 
I am debating on buying a pretty dog collars for my dog. LV has one, I think Goyard does too.

Has anyone seen any other brands carry dog accessories? Figured I could have her try to match me sometimes [emoji23]
 
Yes, yes, YES! :nuts: I love these bags. I want the green one which says “restocking soon” for work. I keep checking each week. As soon as it’s in, I’m pouncing!!!

I’m also tempted by the nano tote but want to get the green one in before I buy anything else from them to make sure I love the bags in person.

They left the protective stickers on... [emoji15]

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