2018 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?
- Thread starter eggtartapproved
- Start date
TPF may earn a commission from merchant affiliate
links, including eBay, Amazon, and others
Wow is right! Sometimes it takes someone else’s analytics to cut through and really help us clarify. Fortunately for me, Mr. PG is color blind, so I don’t see him being able to do this for me, but it sounds like this was a big... if scary... help to you! Good luck with the Fashionphile sales... and now you have room for more scarves!I have to say, Mr. S is fabulous! Also, I truly hope he and my DH never meet!They make too much sense and call us out when we’re not going about things the absolute best way. Which is good, but also a little disconcerting at times!
I coerced DH into going through my Hermes 90 cm silks yesterday — a true case of be careful what you wish for! First, he said he needed to see ALL the scarves, not just the ones I was thinking of selling. So, one by one, we went through all 16 scarves, both unfolded and laid flat, and worn. Then, he told me to put them all out, folded, so he could see them all together on the guest room bed. Then, as I watched with my mouth open, he quickly organized them by usage and color, and very matter-of-factly said, “OK, so these are the ones you keep and use. These two don’t get worn much but are special so they don’t get sold (this was referring to one holiday-specific scarf and the very first H scarf I ever got). This one goes because if you’re going to wear a scarf with orange, you have this one and this one. This one goes because you don’t like the design and the colors are similar to this one that you do wear. And this one you don’t like the colors on, and this one you never wear. And these two are on the fence for you to decide.”
Wow. Four to be sold, two still to be determined, the rest to keep. Just like that. I was a little stunned, but the thing is, he was right. So, I sent photos of the four to Fashionphile, have two others in the To Decide category, and the rest are back on the shelf in my closet.
It’s kind of funny when we ask our DH’s to pay attention, and it turns out they were paying attention all along — if not to the tiny details of leather and silk, to the larger picture of who we are and what makes our hearts sing.
How cute that your DH is involved in this process!I have to say, Mr. S is fabulous! Also, I truly hope he and my DH never meet!
I coerced DH into going through my Hermes 90 cm silks yesterday — a true case of be careful what you wish for! First, he said he needed to see ALL the scarves, not just the ones I was thinking of selling. So, one by one, we went through all 16 scarves, both unfolded and laid flat, and worn. Then, he told me to put them all out, folded, so he could see them all together on the guest room bed. Then, as I watched with my mouth open, he quickly organized them by usage and color, and very matter-of-factly said, “OK, so these are the ones you keep and use. These two don’t get worn much but are special so they don’t get sold (this was referring to one holiday-specific scarf and the very first H scarf I ever got). This one goes because if you’re going to wear a scarf with orange, you have this one and this one. This one goes because you don’t like the design and the colors are similar to this one that you do wear. And this one you don’t like the colors on, and this one you never wear. And these two are on the fence for you to decide.”
Wow. Four to be sold, two still to be determined, the rest to keep. Just like that. I was a little stunned, but the thing is, he was right. So, I sent photos of the four to Fashionphile, have two others in the To Decide category, and the rest are back on the shelf in my closet.
It’s kind of funny when we ask our DH’s to pay attention, and it turns out they were paying attention all along — if not to the tiny details of leather and silk, to the larger picture of who we are and what makes our hearts sing.
I am loving unique hardware on bags. Rainbow would be so cute to have. Is this bag heavy? I know some of the AW’s have been when they have the studding underneath.
All great points!
Yep, I’m totally scarred from the flipping. I think it’s just such a waste of time and resources. So, I want to avoid it like the plague. And, I am a total analyzer bunny. LOL!!!
I enjoy my new bags so much, I want to keep having that yippee feeling with everything else!
So, yes, I’m going to relax and just see what I like. I did go into Chanel to try a black jumbo in caviar. It was ok. So lamb it would be! It is what it is.
(side note: the Chanel SA said she’s surprised I’d sell my patent jumbo as it’s always requested but not always available. I find that hard to believe.)
@msd_bags - yes. I like high end bags LOL! but I don’t see me ever moving seriously into Hermes because I’m just not a fan of most of the styles. I want to explore the Kelly but, other than that, nothing H appeals to me. I’m going to keep an eye on Gucci, pray for Dior to get back to a spot I like, and pick up one off bags from other brands I fall for.
Also, I agree on the YSL. It wouldn’t work for me for business either. But, the tote I’m looking for isn’t for work - it’s for my fun time. So the LouLou would be fine...if I loved it.
Good job staying on track!!!
Have you considered card holders. I use either those or small French purses because I don’t like large wallets eating up space, either. My unavoidable space hogs are my sunnies.That's nice to be within quota!!
On wallets, I'm actually looking for flat pouches that would serve as my wallet. If it was your Marni Trunk for you, it's my BV Pillow for me. My wallet eats up space inside that small bag! Plus, there is also the weight even if the wallet does not hold much except bills and cards. Debating with myself on a lot of choices for this one.
OMG! Once again logic applied to fashion.I have to say, Mr. S is fabulous! Also, I truly hope he and my DH never meet!
I coerced DH into going through my Hermes 90 cm silks yesterday — a true case of be careful what you wish for! First, he said he needed to see ALL the scarves, not just the ones I was thinking of selling. So, one by one, we went through all 16 scarves, both unfolded and laid flat, and worn. Then, he told me to put them all out, folded, so he could see them all together on the guest room bed. Then, as I watched with my mouth open, he quickly organized them by usage and color, and very matter-of-factly said, “OK, so these are the ones you keep and use. These two don’t get worn much but are special so they don’t get sold (this was referring to one holiday-specific scarf and the very first H scarf I ever got). This one goes because if you’re going to wear a scarf with orange, you have this one and this one. This one goes because you don’t like the design and the colors are similar to this one that you do wear. And this one you don’t like the colors on, and this one you never wear. And these two are on the fence for you to decide.”
Wow. Four to be sold, two still to be determined, the rest to keep. Just like that. I was a little stunned, but the thing is, he was right. So, I sent photos of the four to Fashionphile, have two others in the To Decide category, and the rest are back on the shelf in my closet.
It’s kind of funny when we ask our DH’s to pay attention, and it turns out they were paying attention all along — if not to the tiny details of leather and silk, to the larger picture of who we are and what makes our hearts sing.
LOL! It’s awesome that he helps you with this. You’ll have a more streamlined collection and added insight for new buys!!!
I’m in the middle.
I just can’t think of bags as fully sunk costs because fundamentally I just think the prices are stupid. So even though I participate in the crazy, I do want to know that if I tire of the bag, I haven’t spent that much on it. I’ve actually spent that much - reasonable cost of wear - resale.
But, I also think it’s crazy to buy only based on resale because it truncates the thought about what I really love and would limit me to certain brands - some of which I don’t even like.
The only way I’m staying somewhat consistent and rational on this topic is to focus on buying what I love. If I love it, I’ll wear it. So there will be a very low chance I’ll want to sell it. But, if I do, I’ve gotten wear out of it so anything I get for it is bonus.
I have to say, Mr. S is fabulous! Also, I truly hope he and my DH never meet!
I coerced DH into going through my Hermes 90 cm silks yesterday — a true case of be careful what you wish for! First, he said he needed to see ALL the scarves, not just the ones I was thinking of selling. So, one by one, we went through all 16 scarves, both unfolded and laid flat, and worn. Then, he told me to put them all out, folded, so he could see them all together on the guest room bed. Then, as I watched with my mouth open, he quickly organized them by usage and color, and very matter-of-factly said, “OK, so these are the ones you keep and use. These two don’t get worn much but are special so they don’t get sold (this was referring to one holiday-specific scarf and the very first H scarf I ever got). This one goes because if you’re going to wear a scarf with orange, you have this one and this one. This one goes because you don’t like the design and the colors are similar to this one that you do wear. And this one you don’t like the colors on, and this one you never wear. And these two are on the fence for you to decide.”
Wow. Four to be sold, two still to be determined, the rest to keep. Just like that. I was a little stunned, but the thing is, he was right. So, I sent photos of the four to Fashionphile, have two others in the To Decide category, and the rest are back on the shelf in my closet.
It’s kind of funny when we ask our DH’s to pay attention, and it turns out they were paying attention all along — if not to the tiny details of leather and silk, to the larger picture of who we are and what makes our hearts sing.
I like your DH!
Thanks for the compliments, the Soho Disco works for me and my lifestyle - it’s a lightweight crossbody bag, secure with a zipper and carries a lot even though it looks like a small bag. It’s one of my most frequently worn bags right now.
Yes, my DH has been an excellent enabler as well as a thoughtful accountability partner.
I love your Gucci hibiscus red camera bag, so pretty!Very cheerful.
I also love red
I've been carrying this one all week on vacation.
Score! Congratulations CM!
My wallets at the moment. The Chanel classic flat pouch and Viera by Ragazze flat wallet.
.
The Viera by Ragazze flat wallet when unbutton.
And two zipper pockets I used for coins and receipts.
.
The Viera by Ragazze flat wallet when unbutton.
And two zipper pockets I used for coins and receipts.
Thank you Cookiefiend!
Thanks bakeacookie!
Aww, you are so sweet Miss_Dawn. Thanks so much!That’s a great piece of advice. Mr @More bags and Mr @Sparkletastic are wise
Have a great vacation @More bags!!
Yes I did! That photo was taken at my parents' house
This is a beautiful story, I especially liked what you said “they were paying attention all along ... to the larger picture of who we are and what makes our hearts sing.” What a lovely relationship you have with your DH. It is wonderful to be seen and feel understood!I have to say, Mr. S is fabulous! Also, I truly hope he and my DH never meet!
I coerced DH into going through my Hermes 90 cm silks yesterday — a true case of be careful what you wish for! First, he said he needed to see ALL the scarves, not just the ones I was thinking of selling. So, one by one, we went through all 16 scarves, both unfolded and laid flat, and worn. Then, he told me to put them all out, folded, so he could see them all together on the guest room bed. Then, as I watched with my mouth open, he quickly organized them by usage and color, and very matter-of-factly said, “OK, so these are the ones you keep and use. These two don’t get worn much but are special so they don’t get sold (this was referring to one holiday-specific scarf and the very first H scarf I ever got). This one goes because if you’re going to wear a scarf with orange, you have this one and this one. This one goes because you don’t like the design and the colors are similar to this one that you do wear. And this one you don’t like the colors on, and this one you never wear. And these two are on the fence for you to decide.”
Wow. Four to be sold, two still to be determined, the rest to keep. Just like that. I was a little stunned, but the thing is, he was right. So, I sent photos of the four to Fashionphile, have two others in the To Decide category, and the rest are back on the shelf in my closet.
It’s kind of funny when we ask our DH’s to pay attention, and it turns out they were paying attention all along — if not to the tiny details of leather and silk, to the larger picture of who we are and what makes our hearts sing.
Last edited:
Your Chanel is pretty and your Ragazze flat wallet is amazing to be able to fit all of those cards and be so slim!