I hope all goes well with your surgery, Elaine.I'm going to try & stay on the sidelines too. Nordstrom half-yearly sale starts on Wednesday, and I'm going to be recuperating from surgery (scheduled tomorrow) so I'm a little worried I'll be tempted to shop because I'll be feeling sorry for myself.
But honestly, there isn't anything I need. I'm bag content, I have all the shoes I need, and my clothing wardrobe is totally on target. I don't like to buy jewelry or coats on line. So instead I'll plan to distract myself with books... I've downloaded a few novels and mysteries on my iPad, and I'll try hard to keep away from the shopping sites.
Also, I'm expecting scarf mail by the end of the week... found something last night from a trusted seller that I've wanted for a long time, so it's not as though I'm being totally virtuous!![]()
I had to admit to myself that I no longer liked as much color in my wardrobe. I think the neutrals (black, grey, white) are simple and chic and I like wearing brightly colored bags whenever I want.No tips, but I just want to share. When I look at my closet I see a lot of white, black and blue tops. And I tell myself I want to inject some variety on the colors. And then I go shopping and a pretty blouse would have several beautiful color options. But what do I pick? Still any of white or blue or black!
That being said, 50% of my wardrobe is brights - red, pink, blue (mostly turquoise or cobalt). So not liking as much color really just meant adding some neutrals to my overly colorful wardrobe.

And, my chosen colors (bags or clothes) are the same. I’d like to add some yellow or green but it’s really hard to find these colors in the style I want (architectural side of glam). It’s hard enough to find it in pink so I fudge the styling a bit.
Interesting list. You’ve given me some to put back on my radar.I wanted to add, I have cut down my "online window shopping" list of stores and I only normally check the following sites: Yoox, TheOutnet, Farfetch (private sale is now on), Selfridges, Monnier Freres and Forzieri (not bought from them yet though). Plus my saved searches in ebay. And sometimes a peek at this or that store. So hopefully, temptation had been minimized?![]()
I always lurked preloved sites. Now I want more of a mix of preloved and new so I need to add these sites in.
But, really, I haven’t bought in the last year like I used to because I haven’t been looking. Funny how those two go together. Ha!
I have one nubuck bag. I baby it because when I did try to clean a spot (very delicately) some color came off. It’s not noticeable unless you're looking for it but it killed me.I think nubuck has shorter "hair" than suade. Should be easy to clean? I'm not so sure, too.

I like black and grey. But, I’m with you. If I wear anything over and over I get sick of it. Variety is a must in my closet.I used to wear only white. I added blue and pink after graduation. Last year, since we were in national mourning for a year plus, now, my closet is full of black and gray. I don't like them. I actually hate them now, but they're still in good condition so I order some flat pack airtight storage bag for them yesterday. I need to put them away otherwise, it'll be easy for me to reach for them since they're becoming the majority of my closet now. (And are actually in my size!) I need to get back in shape and wear those light colors that I love again. I'm just sick of wearing them, but during a morning rush, it's just so easy to put them on.
Good luck on your efforts to get back in shape.
