From your collection I think I totally get your style and love it!You're so kind to ask and thanks for the encouragement! My collection is super small, and I feel like I've come along way with only buying bags I love, which is a big accomplishment! It's so interesting to see how tastes/collections evolve over time! So right now my collection consists of:
LV MM DE Neverfull
LV GM Mono Neverfull
LV Mono Artsy
LV LE Leopard Speedy(hasn't been used in about a year)
Bal Dark Night City RGGH
RM Plum MAM
RM Black Cat MAB (still love it after all these years, haven't used it at all recently, ugh)
Henri Bendel Iridescent Gotham Satchel (last years model)
As for wallets/accessories, I sell them if they don't get regular use (also love to buy wallets for some reason--why is that?!?!)
Bal Makeup Bag/Clutch/Pouch
LV Emilie (I think my favorite wallet ever!) in Mono w/ Poppy interior
Dior Cannage Card case in black with pink interior
AW Iridescent Prisma Envelope Wallet
I'm really excited about adding the Cyclamen City and then I'll be mostly banned until my birthday (may find a wallet between now and then lol!)
And you're right. Only buying bags you love is a HUGE accomplishment! So often it's easy to get swayed by a sale or trends or an impulse. (I'm still fighting those "it's so CUTE!" impulses. LOL!)
So, Kudos on getting your bag acquisition right!!