For me, etoupe was my first B and black with ghw was my 2nd B. I'm normally a neutral girl, and for the amount of money, I wanted to get a lot of wear out of it. I'm into seasonal colors now, but those two colors are staples and I'd never let them go.
other tpfers have given great advice, so I think you really need to think it thru on your needs and whether this will be your only B or not..and plan accordingly~
have fun, don't stress, and go with your heart!