Sex! for those of us in relationships/marriages

[Nishi621]

Who initiates more-you or hubby/SO? And, how long have you been together?

 

[Luna]

Depends who wants it. If I want it, and I initiate it.. of coruse it happens. If he wants it and initiates it.. he's got a 50/50 shot.

4 years together

 

[Shari]

Been together for 5 years and he initiates most! Bloody randy Scorpios!

 

[truegem]

11 yrs....WOW...he initiates it most of the time and his chances are usually slim to none. After 11 yrs. you'd think he'd know that cleaning the house and making dinner is a turn on!! Doing that he has a 99% chance.

 

[Sina]

I've been with my bf for 4 years and we both do 50/50.=P

 

[anotheremptysky]

I've been with the BF for almost 5 years. It goes through phases. Unfortunately, with both of us going to school/working so much, there's only really one option during the week when we actually have a chance ... so there's not much surprise, haha.

 

[The Snorks]

hmmm...I would have to say with initiate equally. We have been together for six years, married for one.

 

[amamxr]

Sorry Ladies- but I think this topic is a bit personal and quite surprised that anyone would ask this kind of question..

 

[Nishi621]

Sorry Ladies- but I think this topic is a bit personal and quite surprised that anyone would ask this kind of question..

Oh, forgot to answer for myself. I probably initiate more than he does and we have been together for 19 years-married for 14 of those.

 

[amamxr]

Oh, forgot to answer for myself. I probably initiate more than he does and we have been together for 19 years-married for 14 of those.

Grow up

 

[Nishi621]

Grow up

 

[bagsnbags]

I think we had raunchier topic than this LOL..

intiate equally..

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[twinkle.tink]

Grow up

Come on...why do you care...if you want to comment do, if you don't ignore the post.

For me I will say, my DH and I have been married for almost 14 years, sex is still a very important part of our lives...neither of us really 'initiate' because it is almost a daily occurance..what we do have to do, is if one of us is not in the mood, let the other person know...rather than the other way around.

 

[Lissis]

Grow up

Hahahaha, I love you.

 

[Lissis]

mistake