Sex! for those of us in relationships/marriages

[bag.lover]

Grow up

I'm sorry, I find your response to Nishi's post quite rude. I probably don't get your sense of humor? If the topic is too much for you, you can skip it.

 

[lv1011]

^^^^ amen.

 

[Baby Boo]

^ agreed

 

[twiggers]

Married for almost 7 and he initiates probably close to 100% of the time.....and he usually gets a yes about 90% of the time.

 

[Kittie LaRoche]

Me and beloved bf will be together for 5 years as of 01/09/2007 and have lived together for the last three years.
He usually initiates more, but when I want it, I'm not to shy to get what I want

 

[LOOKINGOOD35]

50/50 11 1/2 years of marriage>

 

[annemerrick]

^ agreed

I don't usually comment on things like this, but I have to say that I agree as well. Nishi is a great part of this forum, and is always so sweet and honest with her posts. It actually hurt my feelings for her to read that "grow up" comment!!

 

[Japster]

I'm sorry, I find your response to Nishi's post quite rude. I probably don't get your sense of humor? If the topic is too much for you, you can skip it.

 

[twinkie]

I don't usually comment on things like this, but I have to say that I agree as well. Nishi is a great part of this forum, and is always so sweet and honest with her posts. It actually hurt my feelings for her to read that "grow up" comment!!

I had a total "over protective mama bear" reaction to that post! Denise is quite possibly one of the nicest ladies here. It hurt my feelings, too.

I seem to remember a certain colon cleansing thread that was wayyyy beyond raunchy!!! This thread is nothing compared to it!

 

[Beach Bum]

:back2topic: ^DOnt make me bring out THOSE pics...ROTFLMAO.....KIDDING..

Enough with the comments guys...lets drop it and stay ON TOPIC!!

 

[mellecyn]

I usually initiate it since my BF is too scared to get a NO as a reaction when he tries something.....I´m so bad....well my libido is, and I´ll blame tPF !!
Just kidding.......I have nothing to blame at all !
I am happy that we can discuss this subject openly, I have already thought about threads like that but I was too scared of your reactions ladies, that you´d be "aaahhhh these obsessed frenchies....!!"

 

[jillybean307]

:back2topic: ^DOnt make me bring out THOSE pics...ROTFLMAO.....KIDDING..

Enough with the comments guys...lets drop it and stay ON TOPIC!!

*sigh* I miss that picture.

 

[ginag]

He does, exclusively. We've been married almost a year.

 

[harlem_cutie]

approx 10 yrs and 60/40 in his favor. I should mention neither of us barely ever says no lol

 

[KristyDarling]

There is NOTHING wrong with you!! I know exactly how you feel! After having kids...my libido pretty much dissapeared! Something about never knowing when you were going to have to get up in the middle of the night, clean up throw-up, or whatever other countless unknown situations come about to interrupt your sleep...make it pretty easy to fall into bed, and go to sleep right away, just hoping that tonight isn't the night!! I feel like I have just come out from under this, and my oldest is 9...youngest 4 1/2. Having kids is exhausting!

Aww, thanks annemerrick! That makes me feel better. And you're absolutely right, the thought of being able to collapse into bed without having to exert any further physical effort is WAAAAY more appealing to me than sex! I'm physically and mentally drained at the end of every day...and sex is not the answer!!!