ok, i am in need of some serious H counseling here, and am calling on the wisdom and taste of all you fabulous gals. . .i'm having an h identity crisis, or something like that. ..here's the story: i've been wanting a birkin for the longest time, and now that I am able to afford one, I have started looking around, and have seen a few, even have one on "reserve" for the incoming bags for fall/winter. . ..but, over the past week or so, i've really started questioning if this is the style bag for me.. .i still really love how it looks on people carrying it, but i am used to a bag that i can throw on my shoulder. ..also, my current bag is totally slouchy (just a big sac, really, no structure), that i stuff everything in.. .so, i am really questioning having a bag that is a) quite structured, and b)only possible to carry by hand/in crook of arm. I've been looking around at all the styles i can find lately.. . .went to h again today, convinced that the bolide 1923 was the bag for me (love the shape of the bolide, but just can't deal with that oval -- what is it for, really?) . . .tried on a beautiful one in gold swift with lighter stitching . .love the style, but it looked funny on me. . .i don't know how to explain it except it looked like i was carrying a bag meant for someone older than myself. ..perhaps because the the bag was a bit small for my taste and just looked kinda dainty? usually i go for something a bit bigger. . .or could be cause i look very young for 30 (about 18, i'm often told ). .i then tried on a gorgeous rouge vif chevre whitebus which looked stunning, but also very rigid, and really intended as a sort of briefcase, no? not a purse. . . .uggh, so now i am confused.. which bag is right for me? anyone have any suggestions? i really need something to fit my lifestyle. . i love simple and classic, but need it to be casual enough that i don't look "funny" carrying it. . .and i would like something more structured than my current bag, but still a bit "sporty" looking. . is there an H bag out there for me? Perhaps a style I'm not yet familiar with? Thoughts, suggestions, anyone??? (on a happier note, i am pleased to report that I had no problem in deciding quickly on my new dogon in rouge vif togo, and a les girafes carre!! )